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Are you more attracted to...

A 'smiley' profile picture, or a more serious 'enigmatic' look. .?

G-O-W
G-O-W Female
17 days ago
Or maybe you prefer a 'mysterious' silhouette.

[No, this is not a 'serious' thread]
NoSaint
NoSaint Female
17 days ago
The mysterious silhouettes are a bit "samey ".
G-O-W
G-O-W Female
17 days ago
I guess silhouettes have to work harder with their charm(s).
Samx
Samx Male
17 days ago
Any picture, if genuine and up-to-date it’s just an indicator. Initially the words have to impress me. Then the voice, when talking to each other, and finally the eyes. Eyes tends to reveal the soul.
Zealous_Zack
Zealous_Zack Male
17 days ago
I agree to some extent Sam but when you are on a dating site with hundreds of ladies to choose from it is more likely to be the ones with a photos which catch your eye.
G-O-W
G-O-W Female
17 days ago
"Windows to the soul".
Minnie-the-Minx
Minnie-the-Minx Female
17 days ago
Not too impressed by photos.  It could be of anyone, or as old as the hills.  Would rather meet up ASAP and see the whites of their eyes, to decide if I want anything to do with them ever again.
eurostar
eurostar Female
16 days ago
Smiling is good but sometimes the teeth aren't eew lol
G-O-W
G-O-W Female
16 days ago
'Would rather meet up ASAP and see the whites of their eyes...'

Better hope they're not bloodshot!
Neros1954
Neros1954 Male
16 days ago
My photo lures in the ladies then my witty and intelligent conversation keeps them interested. It's easy lol.
G-O-W
G-O-W Female
16 days ago
is that how you got the shepherd's pie invite Nero?
;-)
MrQuiet
MrQuiet Male
15 days ago
Smiley or enigmatic would do me.
Andromeda
Andromeda Female
15 days ago
Love to see a nice smile.
HotOrWot
HotOrWot Male
8 days ago
I guess silhouettes have to work harder with their charm(s).

Have you seen some of the photos? LOLOL
sonofEasteregg
sonofEasteregg Male
8 days ago
my profile has minimum minimum on it and a silhouette, and 2 young ladies have message. Sweettruelove ( 34) and rose24 ( 36 ). Surely they dont want to rip me off.
G-O-W
G-O-W Female
8 days ago
Of course not sonofE!
lindy
lindy Female
8 days ago
am at an age when I do like to see a pic of the person - and a smile.  Preferably up to date...at least within a year or so!! 
tsunamiwarrior
tsunamiwarrior Male
7 days ago
A pic and a nice smile.
Mumsie
Mumsie Female
6 days ago
would prefer an up to date photo 
Minnie-the-Minx
Minnie-the-Minx Female
6 days ago
I'm sure you will manage to keep your hands firmly on your wallet, sonof.
Zealous_Zack
Zealous_Zack Male
6 days ago
Every photo I have ever had taken is older than the real me.
AndyMacG
AndyMacG Male
6 days ago
If it was a naked picture i wouldn't be looking for a smile ;-) lol





Andy Mac
HotOrWot
HotOrWot Male
5 days ago
Top post!
Top post!
One person's enigmatic is another person's creepy LOLOL
Andromeda
Andromeda Female
4 days ago
some photos are a bit scary!


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