Something I hate with a passion, especially on a dating site. How can any relationship begin with a lie, because that's what it is, and do they who do it have the guts to admit it? again, what does that say for any future possible relationship?
Perhaps I'm lucky, I don't think it's ever happened to me, though not sure about others I know. I could never understand why I wasn't 'drawn' to have a romantic relationship with anyone from this site until a discussion with someone else from here who enlightened me to it. Perhaps luckily for me, I think all the people I have met have been honest and lovely people, I would also argue that catfishers are not always so easy to spot - especially early on. I used to think Hierophant was being unduly hard on people when he talked of it, lately I have to agree with him.