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ARE YOUNGER MEN DESPERATE ??

ARE THEY UNABLE TO DATE LADIES OF THEIR OWN AGE GROUP

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Female
Pilgrims_Rest  Female  Wiltshire
16-Oct-2017 14:54 Message #4703083
I am thinking this should be in the Laughter Room.

I have had men much younger than myself sending me messages.
I'm definitely not flattered either

I feel I need to Publicly state on my profile that I am not into Child
Snatching or words to that effect.

Do they think that I am so desperate that I would date these youngsters??

Maybe it's because younger women won't put up with their silly &
stupid nonsense.

How many of you ladies have been pestered by these young immature men??

Dee
Female
Minnie-the-Minx  Female  Hertfordshire
16-Oct-2017 15:15 Message #4703084
I think your answer might be in another thread where the OP reckons that we are all randy old women.
Female
Pilgrims_Rest  Female  Wiltshire
16-Oct-2017 15:25 Message #4703086
Maybe !!

But, I would like to think I was more selective & definitely not desperate.
Female
Minnie-the-Minx  Female  Hertfordshire
16-Oct-2017 15:54 Message #4703090
I think that most of are, but if that is the perception, I'm not sure how you deal with that.
Male
Hierophant  Male  East Anglia
16-Oct-2017 17:00 Message #4703096
Well if it's on here then I'm amazed - to be fair the average age of most folks on here is about 60 so what "young" men are doing here I have no idea - they must be lost.
Think yourself lucky you are getting any messages at all...
Female
eurostar  Female  Merseyside
16-Oct-2017 17:24 Message #4703099
I have to keep logging on as I get messages...lol
everyones definition of young is different

I,m fuming that now a male of 36 years of age is now young to me...lol...so pilgrims rest what is "young" for you?
Male
Hierophant  Male  East Anglia
16-Oct-2017 17:39 Message #4703101
A male of 50 is young to you...
lol
lol
lol...
Female
eurostar  Female  Merseyside
16-Oct-2017 17:43 Message #4703103
lol shurrup you lol
Male
TimidTim  Male  Derbyshire
16-Oct-2017 18:10 Message #4703104
According to younger lads, older women tend to be easy.
They even give a reason, they are trying to convince themselves that they look younger.
So they think the attention means they look younger.
Female
sandy_sw  Female  Devon
16-Oct-2017 18:15 Message #4703106
I would think it's the young men that are easy!
Male
mancers  Male  Greater Manchester
16-Oct-2017 18:21 Message #4703107
What's good for the goose. :0) There again it doesn't help if your an older man does it .
Female
Pilgrims_Rest  Female  Wiltshire
16-Oct-2017 18:31 Message #4703108
I am 72, so anybody younger than this is "young"

But my messages are coming from 40 ish young men.

My son is 48.

I'm glad I can laugh about it.
Male
barney  Male  Surrey
16-Oct-2017 18:44 Message #4703110
Ladies,

They might be after your money, keep your handbags close.
Female
Pilgrims_Rest  Female  Wiltshire
16-Oct-2017 19:26 Message #4703116
barney Well they can have my handbag & here I am thinking they were after my body.

That's a relief.

Male
HonestBob  Male  the Central region
16-Oct-2017 19:38 Message #4703120
"I have had men much younger than myself sending me messages.
I'm definitely not flattered either"


I think you should be.

"Do they think that I am so desperate that I would date these youngsters??"

Probably, or they are just genuine men trying to show an interest in you.

"Maybe it's because younger women won't put up with their silly &
stupid nonsense."


Or maybe it's because younger women are not to their taste... I'm not a fan of younger women these days, they think they are men or have to act like men, if I wanted to be with a man I'd get a man. What is their stupid and silly nonsense? Maybe men don't want to put up with modern womans "Stupid and silly nonsense" so aim to older women... not knowing that they can also be full of stupidity and silly nonsense too. (Not all of course)

"How many of you ladies have been pestered by these young immature men??"

Yes lets hear it...

Lady one: I get 10 young men a day wanting me!
Lady two: Only 10? I get at least 20!
Lady one: Oh! Yes, but I get another 15 at night as well.
Lady two: Yes, they really are desperate for us, they want us sooo badly. There is something wrong with them
Lady one: I know, I wish they would just leave us alone, without pestering us for sex!
Lady three: Oh sorry I'm late... Hoards of young men were begging for my attention and could hardly control their lust for me and my aged body.
Female
eurostar  Female  Merseyside
16-Oct-2017 20:35 Message #4703125
do men feel that young women are desperate if they chat up old men?...i,ve never fancied younger but when a lot younger fancied older men...lol


just wondering
Female
sandy_sw  Female  Devon
16-Oct-2017 21:44 Message #4703126
Euro, are you asking if young men feel that that young women are desperate if they chat up old men? Or the older men think this, when chatted up by younger women? :-) Err what?!!
Female
eurostar  Female  Merseyside
16-Oct-2017 22:01 Message #4703130
well on mse it would be older men of course...lol.lol.there aint no youngsters ..lol.

i was actually just gender reversing on pilgrim rest op...
from what i,ve read on here for years most men seem to think younger women only want them for money, passport etc...never heard one say they were wanted for sex by a young female...lol
Female
rea1  Female  West Yorkshire
16-Oct-2017 22:11 Message #4703131
I'v not been on here for a long time, but I got a message so I checked it. It was from a good looking 51yr old widower, good looking guy but I wasn't fooling myself at 13yr older than him !!. He asked if I'd like to keep in contact and asked me about myself...I replied and so did he, then I added PS that I'd met and keep in contact with quite a few female friends on here. Not heard from him since mmm wonder why ha ha.

Liz
Female
Minnie-the-Minx  Female  Hertfordshire
17-Oct-2017 00:04 Message #4703140
ah, mr nutcase himself.
Female
rea1  Female  West Yorkshire
17-Oct-2017 07:35 Message #4703149
Ha ha seems seems like it Minnie. Or it could have been when I mentioned my son was in the police force who knows, as there's so many scammers out there that think some older women are gullible, stupid re their love lives and finances. But alas not all of us are ha ha.

Liz
Male
Hierophant  Male  East Anglia
17-Oct-2017 07:41 Message #4703150
"do men feel that young women are desperate if they chat up old men?"

Not at all, at least I don't - I actually feel like all my Christmases have come at once and I question my luck.
I currently have a 29 year old who has taken a shine to me, it's all rather interesting and I'm not sure what to do...
Male
badman  Male  Suffolk
17-Oct-2017 07:45 Message #4703151
Older women complaining that they're receiving attention from younger men???

Oh my goodness. That'll never do.

They hate it.

Yeah, right.
Male
vanman  Male  Cambridgeshire
17-Oct-2017 08:05 Message #4703152
barney said on 16th Oct ...

"They might be after your money, keep your handbags close."

My mum would have said ...

"Keep your hand on your ha'penny"

lol ;-}
Female
Minnie-the-Minx  Female  Hertfordshire
17-Oct-2017 13:57 Message #4703184
I suppose you can't help the nonsense that other folks make up about you.

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