Exl Female (56) from Hampshire

I’m a normal member of the human species with some imperfections, but with a strength of ten as well, I kid ye not! I strive to live fearlessly and not to merely see life in black-and-white. I see the many grey areas around us and try to make sense of this wonderfully weird, wacky world of ours.
Among my activities are bits of walking, exploring open spaces (especially the one between my ears), swimming and using my senses (not the one referred to as "common") optimally – like smelling cinnamon, the wetness of the earth and freshly cut grass, tasting a tear, listening to the birds' symphonic sounds at five in the morning, feeling the warmness of a loving hug and tasting the sweet in between sour. I'm adaptable, honest, transparent, don't hold grudges and enjoy times in the rugged outdoors as much as I do the comforts of my haven. I'm keen on daring sporty challenges, animals and great music. And I'm not into fighting, sulking, cheating, clothing accounts, credit cards or shopping malls. I love moments that offer beauty in art, people, nature, words and actions. Huge trees, fireplaces, the moon, stars, bonfires, thunder storms, butterflies, rural places and their people, long stretched-out roads and cross-word puzzles all fascinate me with their mystique and the many stories they carry. If only they could tell!
I believe passion is probably one of the most important dimensions of the human composition – without that we are left without those dreams and aspirations that keep us going.

Who knows?

Basic facts icon About me

I'm 56 years old and come from Hampshire in the United Kingdom. I'm single with one child. I'm 5' 4" tall and I'd describe myself as slim. I don't smoke and I drink occasionally. I'm here for dating and friendship.

Detailed facts icon My detailed facts

Hair colour Dark brown
Hair style Long
Eyes Dark brown
Glasses For driving/distance only
Tattoos One or two - discreet
Piercings One or two - discreet
Attractiveness Quite attractive
Ethnicity White - British
Education University
Job Clerical/admin
Income Rather not say
Smoking Ex-smoker
Drinking Socially only
Drugs Never
Food Red meat all the way
Politics Rather not say
Religion Other
Practising No
Children 1
More children I don't want to have (more) children

Hobbies and interests icon My hobbies and interests

Cooking Im a good cook and enjoy all types of food. Especially enjoy chinese.
Shopping Not my most favourite activity, but it can be fun with the right partner shopping for the right things.
DIY Im pretty handy, can use a drill, put tiles up, decorate and Ive even been known to tinker under the bonnet of a car.
Housework Home is clean and tidy but Im not obsessive about it.
Dining out Yes, eating out is good when shared with the right company and no dishes to wash.
Movies I do enjoy a good movie, though I cant remember the last time I snuggled in the back row.
Theatre Not been for a few years.
Music Varied taste in music. Can be anything from rock and pop to something more easy going and romantic.
Gigs Live music can be good and I will go to music festivals also.
Pubs Good company in a country pub or a fun night out.
Clubbing Its still known on occasion.
Newspapers and magazines I dont read papers or buy into media hype, I will find what I need to know online.
Books Avid book reader, mostly crime and thrillers.
TV Not often, though do enjoy Top Gear.
Watching sport Occasionally will watch rugby.
Playing sport I swim, cycle and walk.
Hobbies Passion for cars and motorbikes and enjoy wandering around shows.

Hopes and dreams icon My hopes and dreams

In ten years I see myself More a case of with who, its the company that really matters.
Who would I invite to a dinner party? 2's company, 3's a crowd, so just you and I.
My ideal date Again its the company, any date can be enjoyed if you share common interests.
What would I never, ever give up? Breathing, Id die else and I have far too much to live for.
If I had to give a speech on a subject I was passionate about ... I can prattle on about many things.
If I could visit anywhere in the world at any time in history I want to visit everywhere in the world. I doubt I'll manage it all, but I will do my best.
If I had a million pounds to give to charity Cancer.
My "and finally" section ... Is there such a thing as a man with balls? Can he say what he means and mean what he says?

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