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Women making the first move...

Does it bother you?

Male
HAPPYMATT  Male  South East London 4-Apr-2019 08:44 Message #4737994
certainly not if it were you lets meet for that drink Matt
Male
NotHermit  Male  Derbyshire 4-Apr-2019 17:52 Message #4738020
Gosh someone woke him up again.
Where does he come from?
Male
Nigel_In_Devon  Male  Devon 4-Apr-2019 18:19 Message #4738022
G2bw..."Older English / British women seem to be well behind their European sisters in their attitude to being dated =
1) Expected to be asked, never ask,
2) Demand they are "treated" for at least the first 3 or 4 meetings,
3) Insist that one cancel one's Dating Site Sub almost from the first meeting,
etc.
English/Brit women are bone idle and try to cover it by claiming "I'm shy."
Huh.
"

What a very sad view of British women.
Male
NotHermit  Male  Derbyshire 4-Apr-2019 19:10 Message #4738025
I do not think he would get many dates in Europe either?
Male
HAPPYMATT  Male  South East London 5-Apr-2019 09:49 Message #4738053
certainly not more the merrier Matt
Male
HAPPYMATT  Male  South East London 5-Apr-2019 10:42 Message #4738055
CERTAINLY NOT MATT
Male
Hierophant  Male  East Anglia 5-Apr-2019 10:46 Message #4738056
You're as smooth as silk Matt
Male
HAPPYMATT  Male  South East London 25-Apr-2019 13:49 Message #4739215
certainly not in fact its happened twice to me on dates must be my new aftershave Matt
Male
persona_non_grata  Male  North London 25-Apr-2019 15:51 Message #4739221
If she doesn’t make the first move ... I would let all the air out and put her back in the box lol.
Male
HonestBob  Male  the Central region 27-Apr-2019 11:41 Message #4739308
"Older English / British women seem to be well behind their European sisters in their attitude to being dated =
1) Expected to be asked, never ask,
2) Demand they are "treated" for at least the first 3 or 4 meetings,
3) Insist that one cancel one's Dating Site Sub almost from the first meeting,
etc."


100% agree with number one.

I'd say majority of women want the man to foot the bill the first time, that way if he isn't up to her high standards, she doesn't end up out of pocket. As for three of four meetings, if any man is willing to be a walking wallet for this length of time, then that's on him.

I'd disagree with three, but I can't say I've met too many women from online to build up a strong opinion on it.

"English/Brit women are bone idle and try to cover it by claiming "I'm shy." "

No, I think they cover it by saying "I like the traditional way!" This goes back to the buffet style equality women desire. They are traditional when it suits them, but the minute the sink is full and the washing needs done... well we all know the song now.
Male
HAPPYMATT  Male  South East London 20-May-2019 11:04 Message #4740452
Certainly not just in case your available lets meet for a drink as you sound interesting Matt
Male
tumbleweed  Male  Gloucestershire 20-May-2019 11:39 Message #4740454
Certainly not...

Happymatt is 'certainly not' all there in the head...He reminds me of a creation of a mad scientist, who is trying to create some sort of Artificial Intelligence type robot thing, but has 'certainly not' succeeded yet.

The 'mad scientist' is 'certainly not' the full package, but he is getting there...He is getting his AI machine to begin everything in this thread with 'certainly not'...and everything in other threads with something else repeatedly...so he is on to something...Keep at it and the final package may be 'certainly not' detectable as a mad scientist creation...

Either that, or he is a total maniac who is certainly not safe to be walking the streets...
Male
fosy  Male  Leicestershire 20-May-2019 11:52 Message #4740456
he only comes on here when the meds have worn off...
Male
Nigel_In_Devon  Male  Devon 20-May-2019 18:53 Message #4740470
Maybe Fosy but it looks, from Matt's last post, as though Honest Bob has pulled ;-)

Male
NotHermit  Male  Derbyshire 20-May-2019 19:52 Message #4740475
Certainly not, The Big Matt is a ladies man, only thing missing is the ladies.
Male
fosy  Male  Leicestershire 20-May-2019 22:38 Message #4740476
good luck to h/b then, hope he remembers his KY ...
Male
HonestBob  Male  the Central region 20-May-2019 23:39 Message #4740477
"The Big Matt is a ladies man, only thing missing is the ladies."

All you above...

You better hope me and Matt don't bring our shaven cocks and asses to your towns... If us two stud McMuffins do, you better lock up your blow up wives and daughters! Hahaha

I carry the KY... Matt carries the puncture repair kit... So we can go all night with your bitches!

Hahahaha
Male
fosy  Male  Leicestershire 21-May-2019 11:02 Message #4740479
lol !
Female
RAACH84  Female  Buckinghamshire 21-May-2019 14:04 Message #4740482
I wouldn’t usually make the first move but who could resist Happy Matt or Honest Bob haha.
Male
NotHermit  Male  Derbyshire 21-May-2019 18:44 Message #4740484
What is seen (or imagined), cannot be unseen ( or unimagined).


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