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badman  Male  Suffolk
2-Oct-2017 20:43 Message #4702283
Well, I'll admit to being old but certainly not past it. And as for being a fuddy duddy, that's everyones personal choice.
Just not mine.
I'm not going to be the one that says 'I'm too old for that sort of thing'.
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Cassis  Female  Cambridgeshire
6-Oct-2017 02:05 Message #4702432
Really Minnie?
You think not wanting to have sex on a first date is being a fuddyduddy? I'd say it has more to do with being discerning.

Badman
For what it's worth, my answer to "do you have to be in love?" is, "No", but if you've known how good it is with someone you do love, or with whom you have a strong emotional relatonship, then the more insipid version with someone you don't have that with is what deters some of us, not Victorian values.

I may have grown to 'love', but I'm not sure if I've ever really been 'in love', so if I'd held out for that, I'd probably still be a virgin!
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badman  Male  Suffolk
6-Oct-2017 07:49 Message #4702433
SuperTramp said it best I think.

Now some they do and some they don't
And some you just can't tell
And some they will and some they won't
With some it's just as well.
Female
Minnie-the-Minx  Female  Hertfordshire
6-Oct-2017 08:08 Message #4702434
Of course, I don't think that, Cassie. I was taking the mick.
Male
capnblackbeard  Male  Hertfordshire
7-Oct-2017 13:13 Message #4702504
not lately joolsy are you offering? :)
Male
HAPPYMATT  Male  South East London
8-Nov-2017 11:52 Message #4704921
Well look no further Matt and expect sayisfaction
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Nigel_In_Devon  Male  Devon
8-Nov-2017 18:21 Message #4704928
Matt, if you're happy with meeting women that want sex on the first date then good up for you, personally I would try to meet people who are a little more up market.

Nigel
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HonestBob  Male  the Central region
8-Nov-2017 18:40 Message #4704930
"Matt, if you're happy with meeting women that want sex on the first date then good up for you, personally I would try to meet people who are a little more up market. "

Up market? Is that the polite way of saying... I'd rather not go on a date with a slut!
Male
badman  Male  Suffolk
8-Nov-2017 21:24 Message #4704940
I'd be happy to find a woman who wants sex at all.
Male
Nigel_In_Devon  Male  Devon
8-Nov-2017 22:14 Message #4704941
Your words Bob, not mine lol
Male
vanman  Male  Cambridgeshire
8-Nov-2017 23:27 Message #4704942
badman said ...
"I'd be happy to find a woman who wants sex at all."

Or as the 'widow woman' once referred to it as ... (after telling me "men only want one thing" and I hadn't even mentioned it, let alone 'tried it on'! lol) ... "being interfered with"

lol.
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HonestBob  Male  the Central region
9-Nov-2017 10:10 Message #4704947
"Your words Bob, not mine lol"

Yes, I'll agree with you... I would prefer an "up market" woman too.
Male
HonestBob  Male  the Central region
9-Nov-2017 10:13 Message #4704948
TCT... Where have you been hiding?
Female
Minnie-the-Minx  Female  Hertfordshire
9-Nov-2017 18:52 Message #4704961
I think the bigger challenge might be in finding someone that you actually wanted to sleep with on a first date.

Male
badman  Male  Suffolk
10-Nov-2017 05:55 Message #4704977
That's not a challenge for me Minnie.
Male
Nigel_In_Devon  Male  Devon
10-Nov-2017 07:19 Message #4704978
TheCommonTit..."If two consenting adults meet, get on, and end up wanting to shag each other senseless then good for them"

Isn't that more or less the same as I said? And I'm the one that is being patronising? How very bizarre!
Male
Nigel_In_Devon  Male  Devon
10-Nov-2017 07:25 Message #4704979
TheCommonTit..."To me, if a woman or a man, says that they won't sleep with someone on a first date due to appearing slutty or believe it's somehow wrong then to me it smacks of super low self confidence. These are the kinds of people to avoid on many levels - so concerned are they of other people's opinions that they are fearful of living their own life."

Yes, it could be due to super low confidence or it could be down to people's beliefs and morals they set themselves. Some are happy to meet up for a quick shag. I personal preference is to get to know someone first and see if a romantic relationship develops before allowing the relationship... move to the bedroom, shall we say. Not that it necessarily has to be a bedroom! ;-) Not necessarily anything to do with insecurity at all.
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HonestBob  Male  the Central region
10-Nov-2017 17:13 Message #4705020
"I've been very busy at work, Bob.

Those burgers don't flip themselves."


Yes it's an art in itself, many people overlook the burger flipper in the process of building a burger.
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HonestBob  Male  the Central region
10-Nov-2017 17:32 Message #4705023
"I was busy helping out a girl with her nuggets."

Oh! Hope she returned the favour if she was an "up market" girl.

I helped a girl the other day, she was completely ungrateful to say the least... won't be happening again lol.

"My boss did not accept my apology though and resulted in him calling me names."

You should have told him you are a male identifying transgender lesbian albino and he wouldn't have been able to say anything bad to you!

"It's been a bad week, Bob."

It can only get worse... hahaha
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LesleyinCoventry  Female  the West Midlands
10-Nov-2017 19:27 Message #4705030
So many are taking you seriously ! I think you maybe saying - No one wants to sleep with me on first date and if I won the lottery perhaps this might change! This post is a fantastic way to get every woman on the site to view your profile.
Male
badman  Male  Suffolk
10-Nov-2017 19:52 Message #4705032
Well they didn't look at mine.
Female
LesleyinCoventry  Female  the West Midlands
11-Nov-2017 14:46 Message #4705098
Just had a look at your profile! Perhaps might Be an idea to post something eye catching in conversations! Or perhaps also join another site if you actually want to meet someone outside virtual world!
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badman  Male  Suffolk
11-Nov-2017 19:44 Message #4705119
Perhaps if I wasn't working 12 hour shifts, 6 days a week, I might just have the time to meet someone. I'm rather busy as part of a very large generating network team keeping your power on.

You're welcome.
Male
HonestBob  Male  the Central region
12-Nov-2017 08:23 Message #4705139
"Perhaps if I wasn't working 12 hour shifts, 6 days a week, I might just have the time to meet someone. I'm rather busy as part of a very large generating network team keeping your power on.

You're welcome."


Thank you Sir :D :D :D
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LesleyinCoventry  Female  the West Midlands
12-Nov-2017 16:00 Message #4705163
I wasn't trying to suggest you were boring. I was merely commenting on the lengths required to get a little attention on this site and suggesting might be a good idea to be on another site where there are more people available.


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