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the girls have started their xmas shopping

for men...

Male
fosy  Male  Leicestershire 1-Nov-2019 22:52 Message #4761144
im on a couple of other sites as well as mse, and in the last couple of weeks the messages from ladies has increased noticeably [well, lets say from 0 to 2/3 per week, ish].

is it because people feel more lonely at xmas than any other time of year and a slight sense of panic sets in ?

is it the same for you girls, do you get more messages coming in from the blokes at this time of year ?
Female
Woosey  Female  North Yorkshire 1-Nov-2019 22:55 Message #4761145
Not as yet my dear...... just the odd phone call lol.

Woo xxx
Female
eurostar  Female  Merseyside 1-Nov-2019 22:59 Message #4761146
they want to have a real life santa……...……..lol
Male
fosy  Male  Leicestershire 1-Nov-2019 23:18 Message #4761148
phone calls are good woo...are you going to book him in ? ;¬)
Male
fosy  Male  Leicestershire 1-Nov-2019 23:21 Message #4761149
yeh but euro, will santa get more than a mince pie and a tot of sherry ???

such a dilemma for the male of the species !
Female
Cassis  Female  Cambridgeshire 1-Nov-2019 23:45 Message #4761156
I'm not on a dating site so can't comment on message influx, but every year, as Xmas approaches, I get phone texts coming in from ex-boyfriends and some guys with whom I may have had just a fleeting acquaintance, who suddenly "wonder how I am/what I'm doing/am I currently single", haha:) Sometimes it may have been a couple of years or more since we last had any contact! I do think a lot of single men and women panic at this time of year......prospects of a lonely Xmas, no partner for Xmas parties and events, etc etc.
Female
Woosey  Female  North Yorkshire 2-Nov-2019 06:42 Message #4761162
Gosh, he's welcome to come visit whenever he wants to :0))

Woo xxx
Female
NoSaint  Female  Devon 2-Nov-2019 07:05 Message #4761166
I’ve noticed the same as Cassis. Old boyfriends and just friends tend to get in touch over Christmas. Maybe they are lonely or just feel it’s a nice thing to do. Maybe they think I’m lonely.
Male
MrQuiet  Male  Northamptonshire 2-Nov-2019 08:46 Message #4761180
I’m preparing myself for the Xmas rush of ladies but it hasn’t started yet.
Male
fosy  Male  Leicestershire 2-Nov-2019 12:41 Message #4761201
any time now mrQ...it might be like a tsunami ;¬)
Male
MrQuiet  Male  Northamptonshire 2-Nov-2019 15:31 Message #4761217
That’s a bit too much for me fosy. Maybe just a trickle.
Male
persona_non_grata  Male  North London 2-Nov-2019 17:38 Message #4761230
I’m hoping they will come after me in the January sales :)
Male
HotOrWot  Male  Lancashire 2-Nov-2019 21:11 Message #4761253
I’m bargain basement.
Female
jennifer  Female  Gloucestershire 3-Nov-2019 10:02 Message #4761318
Oh, guys, thanks for the giggles! Some really funny responses. All voted my favourites!

Male
MrQuiet  Male  Northamptonshire 4-Nov-2019 11:11 Message #4761431
I received a nice message from an mse lady this morning but I'm worried she just felt sorry for me lol.
Male
NotHermit  Male  Derbyshire 4-Nov-2019 19:22 Message #4761455
I got a message today.
Her profile says.

* I am not expecting to find a knight in shining armour, but I will not settle for a c@@t in tin foil either.*

Bad news, Tin Foil is not good enough anymore!
Female
NoSaint  Female  Devon 5-Nov-2019 06:33 Message #4761526
Who wants a coot in tin foil!
Male
HotOrWot  Male  Lancashire 6-Nov-2019 22:40 Message #4761708
Who wants a coot in tin foil!

Not I.
Female
jennifer  Female  Gloucestershire 7-Nov-2019 10:56 Message #4761750
I had to Google what a coot was!! Nah, I don't want a bird in tin foil either!!!
Female
joolsy  Female  Essex 7-Nov-2019 11:38 Message #4761761
Ha ha thats so funny .wonders if the coot in tin foil rides a donkey i loves donkeys lol .he he i loves you guys xxx
Male
AQuietLife  Male  North Yorkshire 7-Nov-2019 22:55 Message #4761830
Coots and an ass .... very funny lol
Male
HotOrWot  Male  Lancashire 8-Nov-2019 06:18 Message #4761837
Coots and an ass .... very funny lol

There must be a very good joke in that somewhere.


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