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Mary  Female  Norfolk 9-Oct-2019 23:37 Message #4757175
I don't know the answer, so to help out HonestBob, I'm posting it here.

Guys, I suspect that some of you have been out with Escorts.

How do you tell a good one ?

Did you get value ?

What's the attraction over a regular partner ?

Are Escorts more cost effective than a full time partner ?

Did you have to cut the grass or mend the car for your Escort. ?

(Asking for a friend)

No Cortina jokes, this is to be helpful.
Male
NotHermit  Male  Derbyshire 10-Oct-2019 00:35 Message #4757181
So you want to be an escort?
I knew someone who decided to be an escort.
Said she could earn more in a day, than a week (hairdressing).
She was stunning, so made good money until mid thirties, then back to hairdressing.

Do they have escorts in Norwich?

Honest Bob does not need any help.
Male
MrQuiet  Male  Northamptonshire 10-Oct-2019 06:13 Message #4757183
Mary. Are you referring to a prostitute or an escort?
Female
Mary  Female  Norfolk 10-Oct-2019 08:56 Message #4757198
Morning MrQuiet

Escorts.

Escorts have the notice of providing extras, if they wish.

For this excerise, please assume extras are being provided.
Female
Mary  Female  Norfolk 10-Oct-2019 08:57 Message #4757199
Notice = choice.
Female
Mary  Female  Norfolk 10-Oct-2019 09:01 Message #4757201
Morning NotHermit

I believe Escorts are available all over the UK, including Norwich
Male
MrQuiet  Male  Northamptonshire 10-Oct-2019 09:20 Message #4757206
Hi Mary. I have also worked in the adult entertainment industry and although prostitutes often advertise as escorts they can also differ in many ways even though many see escorts as prostitutes.

I would never assume an escort will always provide extras and I know a few who do nothing sexual at all but are genuine escorts for dinners and dances.

Assuming, as most do, we are talking about escorts offering extras then are you talking dinner, dance and sex or just sex?
Male
HotOrWot  Male  Lancashire 10-Oct-2019 15:35 Message #4757257
Are we talking prices and business cards in phone boxes ?
Female
Mary  Female  Norfolk 10-Oct-2019 16:56 Message #4757267
Are we talking prices and business cards in phone boxes ?


No....my granny says it was like that in the 70's
Female
Mary  Female  Norfolk 10-Oct-2019 17:00 Message #4757269
"Assuming, as most do, we are talking about escorts offering extras then are you talking dinner, dance and sex or just sex?"


Let deal with both. It'll give HonestBob
greater knowledge
Female
Aely  Female  Hampshire 10-Oct-2019 18:40 Message #4757289
I'm not sure who was "escorting" whom, but a gentleman and I did go to a concert together although we were not otherwise involved. We both wanted to go but preferred going in company. I dressed up nicely and went "on his arm" for the evening. HE provided the transport. And no, there were no "extras".

But perhaps that is not quite what you were referring to...
Male
Good2BWith  Male  West Yorkshire 10-Oct-2019 19:11 Message #4757306
Where are the dividing lines between:
# Prostitution
# Massage parlours +/ sexual services
# Escorts with +/ sexual services
# Trophy partners
# Toy boys / girls
# Sex for Contracts; and grants from the Tax payer (As alleged has been the case with Mr B Johnson
# Marrying for wealth +/ social elevation?

Or is it a continuum with the boundaries constantly shifting according to the circumstances pertaining in a particular society at a particular time?

See also Social Labeling Theory - Howard Saul Becker et alia
Male
MrQuiet  Male  Northamptonshire 10-Oct-2019 19:14 Message #4757308
# Toy boys / girls

Nothing to do with sex. All to do with age.
Female
Aely  Female  Hampshire 10-Oct-2019 20:50 Message #4757338
Although, Mr Q, when I was 42 and my young man of the time was, well, a young man of 29 we didn't talk about age much. ;-)

Male
Good2BWith  Male  West Yorkshire 10-Oct-2019 22:38 Message #4757366
MrQuiet Male Northamptonshire10-Oct-2019 19:14 new Message #4757308
# Toy boys / girls

Nothing to do with sex. All to do with age.
Male
TrollPatrol  Male  North Yorkshire 10-Oct-2019 22:51 Message #4757371
Although, Mr Q, when I was 42 and my young man of the time was, well, a young man of 29 we didn't talk about age much. ;-)

You were a wild lady :)
Male
brisinger  Male  Lancashire 10-Oct-2019 23:38 Message #4757373
One wonders where they put business cards now since phone boxes are so few and far between ;-)
Female
wonderoushen  Female  Gwynedd 11-Oct-2019 11:04 Message #4757421
MSE? We get a few advertising in our local free paper.
Male
Hierophant  Male  East Anglia 11-Oct-2019 11:29 Message #4757429
As an aside, I wonder how many women have made use of male escorts or have male friends with "benefits"?...
Male
HonestBob  Male  the Central region 11-Oct-2019 12:00 Message #4757433
Well for me a good escort must be clean, not have any STDs or any viruses. She also must be hygienic, no self respecting man should pay for a woman who has a fishy pishy, body odour or bad breath, unless the client requested it. She should also be very discreet, I believe most men who see escorts for sex are married men, so discretion should be essential. She should also have standards herself, about the type of client she will see..... I've seen them advertise "No Asians and no Blacks!" Also saying they will not meet a client who has been with a escort who does dangerous acts, such as bareback! She must also offer value for money, and put the needs of the client first.

Looks wise, it doesn't really matter, as all men have specific tastes in women. I have noticed up here, city centre girls are younger and a bit more foreign. Out in the sticks escorts tend to be older, British women.

Another quality I hear is in high demand, is a feminine escort. As femininity is just about gone from women these days, it's something men are desperately seeking.

Good reviews also don't go a miss either.
Male
Beach  Male  Dorset 11-Oct-2019 12:34 Message #4757440
I'm confused ...

I mean; Are we, hypothetically, discussing the qualities of an individual, a person, a human being here?

Or are we mulling over the merits of a potential purchase … a commodity similar to a slab of beef or a second hand car?
Male
HotOrWot  Male  Lancashire 11-Oct-2019 13:47 Message #4757447
I don't know about others but I'm fed up being treated by women as a slab of beef or a mobile penis. Respect please ladies.
Male
NotHermit  Male  Derbyshire 11-Oct-2019 15:28 Message #4757464
Not as mobile as it would like to be Hottie?
Male
HotOrWot  Male  Lancashire 11-Oct-2019 15:31 Message #4757465
Not as mobile as it would like to be Hottie?

Flaggin' a bit mate. The years haven't been kind.
Male
HotOrWot  Male  Lancashire 11-Oct-2019 15:34 Message #4757466
Good reviews also don't go a miss either.

Look on tripadvisor. You need five star reviews and vaue for money if you have the bells and whistles.

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