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Who is in the

Cabal?

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NotHermit  Male  Derbyshire 7-Sep-2019 15:56 Message #4751330
According to someone on this site, we have a Cabal.
They keep saying who is not in the Cabal.
They keep saying who wants to be in the Cabal.
But they never say who is in the Cabal.
So who is in the Cabal?
Or does the Cabal not actually exist at all?

Latest casualty apparently Mr Quiet.
He was told he could not get in the Cabal.
Just imagine how upset Mr Quiet is?

Lot of Cabals there for Tumbleweed, I think they claimed TW was in the Cabal at some time.
But he was kicked out of the Cabal.
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Good2BWith  Male  West Yorkshire 7-Sep-2019 16:10 Message #4751332
As I've already written, and you failed to read, or did and chose to ignore, Tumbleweed is FAR too bright to be either:
Invited to join the E-Cabal, or
Join if someone slipped up and did invite him.

Wake up at the back there.
Male
NotHermit  Male  Derbyshire 7-Sep-2019 16:13 Message #4751334
Who is in the Cabal?
Again you only say who is not in the Cabal.
Male
MrQuiet  Male  Northamptonshire 7-Sep-2019 16:17 Message #4751337
I strongly suspect that suspicious sounding chap Good2BWitheflowinggoodintent is the Cabal.
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NotHermit  Male  Derbyshire 7-Sep-2019 16:27 Message #4751339
Yes, but he says Tumbleweed is too clever to join the Cabal.
And G2B thinks he is cleverer than everyone else.
So if G2B was the Cabal, he would not say TW was too clever to join the Cabal.
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Cautious1954  Female  Berkshire 7-Sep-2019 16:44 Message #4751340
Before all the silly nonsense about a cabal it used to be similar posts referring to cliques. I feel it is often the case of those who don't want to join in having a dig at those who do want to join in.
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tumbleweed  Male  Gloucestershire 7-Sep-2019 16:55 Message #4751342
The right cabal told me to go and join the left one.....The left one said 'have you tried the right one?'

So I'm caballess at the moment.....

Anyone know of any good boxing ones?
Male
Justaguy  Male  South East London 7-Sep-2019 17:27 Message #4751346
Please accept my resignation. I don't want to belong to any club that will accept people like me as a member." -Groucho Marx-
Male
Good2BWith  Male  West Yorkshire 7-Sep-2019 19:26 Message #4751349
@tumbleweed 7-Sep-2019 16:55

Oh, Hokey Cokey.
Male
Nigel_In_Devon  Male  Devon 7-Sep-2019 20:27 Message #4751353
Does it matter who us in and who isn't?
Male
Good2BWith  Male  West Yorkshire 7-Sep-2019 21:12 Message #4751359
If anyone who wasn't in the E-Cabal knew who WAS in the E-Cabal it wouldn't be a Cabal, would it?
Male
Good2BWith  Male  West Yorkshire 7-Sep-2019 21:13 Message #4751360
If anyone who wasn't in the E-Cabal knew who WAS in the E-Cabal it wouldn't be a Cabal, would it?
Male
Good2BWith  Male  West Yorkshire 7-Sep-2019 21:14 Message #4751361
NigelInDevon 7-Sep-2019 20:27
Does it matter who us in and who isn't?

It does, very, very deeply, to "fosy".
Female
JustLyn  Female  Cheshire 7-Sep-2019 21:42 Message #4751362
Cautious1954,

A couple of months or so back, I felt verbally attacked because I was in a personal situation with my son and his denial of benefits. To m, this was personal evidence of a corrupt system as lies were actually written by the assessor so he would fail the necessary points.
All I got from here, from a certain set of posters, who happen to be in the so-called cabal ( I had to look up what a cabal means) are exactly the same posters I once referred to as a clique. I.e, those who stick together and exclude others in various ways.

I am pretty sure Good2Bwith and Witheflow etc, including myself do not want to be part of that kind of joining in. However, some have retaliated with the same, and then are called out for being trolls.

It seems some here think what is good for the goose is not equally good for the gander, a bit like politics at the moment really.

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Cautious1954  Female  Berkshire 7-Sep-2019 22:01 Message #4751365
I called the cabal thing a lot of silly nonsense and I believe that is the case. It could just as easily be deduced from your post the Good2BW, Witheflow and you make up the cabal but I think that is nonsense too, there is no cabal and several members agreeing with each other does not make a clique either.
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tumbleweed  Male  Gloucestershire 7-Sep-2019 22:12 Message #4751366
The whole thing is a certain nonsense...and that's why I make the silly comments I make about it....

However.....there's always a 'however' or a 'but'.....however, there is always going to be a certain truth in it as well...

If we like someone, we will often side with them on most things...if not everything....Some are more prone to that than others....but we are all prone to it a certain amount, in my opinion.

Some people on here hate me....absolutely loathe me....maybe it's me reading certain things in to it, but they certainly don't like me anyway....and they hate everything I post....everything I say....all the time...

So a group of those people would certainly seem like a 'clique' or 'cabal' or whatever....

And the same with me to them....there are posters that i can't stand....so I would seem to be in a 'cabal' as well..

So it will always happen.....but it is what it is.....and I will continue to take the piss out of it....
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MrQuiet  Male  Northamptonshire 7-Sep-2019 22:24 Message #4751369
I think that’s it in a nutshell tumbleweed. The cabal thing has been a joke to practically everyone with no-one taking it seriously. I agree with the certain amount of favouritism and also the dislike of some posters but that is something we call “life” and it happens to everyone sooner or later.
Male
HotOrWot  Male  Lancashire 7-Sep-2019 22:49 Message #4751375
Before all the silly nonsense about a cabal it used to be similar posts referring to cliques. I feel it is often the case of those who don't want to join in having a dig at those who do want to join in.

Exactly.
Male
Witheflow  Male  North Yorkshire 8-Sep-2019 14:34 Message #4751453
Lots of introspection and self excuse/examination occurring here. It's good to examine oneself. Nice thred!
Male
MrQuiet  Male  Northamptonshire 8-Sep-2019 14:40 Message #4751455
You forgot to mention your cabal.
Female
Aely  Female  Hampshire 8-Sep-2019 15:37 Message #4751462
Are the members of a Cabal called Caballeros? Perhaps the Cabal is the Pony Club?
Female
joolsy  Female  Essex 8-Sep-2019 15:43 Message #4751464
Lol aely .wonders if i can be in the cabal club .ive got a degree in pottery you no .you cant have enough pots .and im potty lol lol
Female
joolsy  Female  Essex 8-Sep-2019 15:47 Message #4751466
I fink ya all great .tumble you rock .i loves ya humour and honesty
Male
SQL  Male  Devon 8-Sep-2019 21:48 Message #4751553
And I thought he was just banging on about Kabul, which I thought was about right for his level.

SQL
Male
Hierophant  Male  East Anglia 8-Sep-2019 21:56 Message #4751555
I think living in Yorkshire is a requirement...

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