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HAPPYMATT  Male  South East London 18-Sep-2017 18:57 Message #4701179
Is it just me or am I wrong it seems the older I get the more women seem to want sex on a first date. Could it be my aftershave or my dazzling personality Matt
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HonestBob  Male  the Central region 18-Sep-2017 19:30 Message #4701184
Well Matt, It could be the old saying... Women age like fish and men age like whiskey. The older you get the more women want a hard drink, so to say.

Or women are getting more slutty by the day...

Just out of curiosity... What aftershave do you use? hahaha
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eurostar  Female  Merseyside 18-Sep-2017 20:04 Message #4701187
its just you, no woman wants sex with me on first date...lol or is that first meet?.lol
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wholelottakaren  Female  Lincolnshire 18-Sep-2017 20:06 Message #4701188
well arent you the lucky one Matt
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Hierophant  Male  East Anglia 18-Sep-2017 20:19 Message #4701190
I agree with Matt, a splash of old spice and the blue rinse brigade are all over me...
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bella111  Female  Devon 18-Sep-2017 21:02 Message #4701191
Is it older women or are you the older one? either way don't look a gift horse in the mouth lol... the older men I know just want to play Bingo;-)
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Minnie-the-Minx  Female  Hertfordshire 18-Sep-2017 22:27 Message #4701195
Really? After a cup of hot cocoa, all I can think about is pushing up some zeds.
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justjoannie  Female  West Yorkshire 18-Sep-2017 23:29 Message #4701204
Do you know it's taken me all my time to even answer !
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aayan  Male  Hampshire 19-Sep-2017 20:16 Message #4701243
I guess dementia has it's up side ...
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badman  Male  Suffolk 19-Sep-2017 20:55 Message #4701247
Yes, you are wrong MATT. Older women rarely want sex at all, let alone on the first date.



(Badman takes cover).
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jennifer  Female  Gloucestershire 20-Sep-2017 10:39 Message #4701267
I know an older woman (did think of putting "mature" woman ... but, nah!) who thinks that having sex on a first date will mean the man will want to move in and live in her house and be a permanent partner. She keeps trying!
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seanthesheep  Male  Cornwall 20-Sep-2017 10:59 Message #4701269
Well Bella, I really don't like Bingo. Sean : )
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joolsy  Female  Essex 20-Sep-2017 11:52 Message #4701271
Us older ladies are at there sexual peak ... We find it hard excuse the pun ... Finding a man who is up to the challenge of a strong independent women who loves sex ... Lol lol :) :)
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HonestBob  Male  the Central region 20-Sep-2017 13:12 Message #4701280
"We find it hard excuse the pun ... Finding a man who is up to the challenge of a strong independent women who loves sex ... Lol lol :) :)"

Maybe men aren't looking for a challenge, as the old saying goes "I want a woman who will make my dick hard... not my life hard" :D :D :D

Or possibly they are after women who are in their physical peak.

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badman  Male  Suffolk 20-Sep-2017 13:25 Message #4701282
I don't think older women have ever had a problem with finding men to have sex with. I just think their morals get in the way of a good s#ag.
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londonlee  Male  Buckinghamshire 20-Sep-2017 16:09 Message #4701287
I think women of all ages are more discerning than men and that has always been the same. Now with the internet and a modern outlook more women are out looking for dates and undoubtedly more sexuaaly active but you are spot on badman that women are the ones letting morals get in the way of a good shag (or even a bad one).
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badman  Male  Suffolk 20-Sep-2017 16:25 Message #4701290
I've yet to meet and older woman in her trough, let alone her peak.
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Minnie-the-Minx  Female  Hertfordshire 20-Sep-2017 17:37 Message #4701291
or maybe they just find casual sex unfulfilling.
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TheQuiteMan  Male  Lincolnshire 20-Sep-2017 22:11 Message #4701316
I must be looking in wrong place then,
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bella111  Female  Devon 20-Sep-2017 23:10 Message #4701320
No like a lot of blokes looking at the wrong women nothing to do with age, some men get fixated on younger women regardless what they look like then the women turn to a younger bloke- more in common, and visa versa some younger men think older women are a meal ticket, or more sexually experience. It just shows the flaws in those individuals...
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londonlee  Male  Buckinghamshire 20-Sep-2017 23:14 Message #4701321
I think you are dead right Minnie-you-Minx :) but I think some men find the same.
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Nemesis  Female  Dorset 21-Sep-2017 17:37 Message #4701356
I also have to disagree. By a certain age women want more from a relationship, else what do you talk about once the sex is over?

You say the older you get the more women seem to want sex on a first date, but you didnt necessarily specify older women?

Having read your profile perhaps if you removed the reference to your lottery win you might find someone who wants you for your intellect and is
not out to impress you in other ways? Just a thought x
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HonestBob  Male  the Central region 21-Sep-2017 17:41 Message #4701357
"Having read your profile perhaps if you removed the reference to your lottery win you might find someone who wants you for your intellect and is not out to impress you in other ways?"

Yep! Nothing gets a woman in the sack like having money!!! I wonder if I should put that on my profile :D
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badman  Male  Suffolk 21-Sep-2017 18:15 Message #4701362
"By a certain age women want more from a relationship"

So what you're saying is, 'You can't have sex unless you give me something else too'.

There's some girls in Ipswich like that.

Relationships with all the bells and whistles are all very well but at risk of emotional damage if something goes pear shaped.

There are probably as many women as there are men out there that don't want to take the risk of being let down (again) and would quite readily agree to a no nonsense relationship.

Sex is a physical need and want. Love is an emotion. All well and good if you're lucky enough to tie them together.

Eating and drinking are physical needs but you don't have to marry them with and emotion.

And let's face it ladies, you're not naive virgins and I bet there have been times when you've thought, 'I just need a good shag'.

(Badman. Telling it like it is).
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wholelottakaren  Female  Lincolnshire 21-Sep-2017 18:41 Message #4701367
Well I can only speak for myself here and say I would not want a nsa fling. I have respect for myself . Didnt act like a tart when I was young and I have no intentions of starting now. I'm afraid life is a series of risks. A relationship goes wrong. It's very sad but you just have to get on with it

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