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Ok so I am getting married on 5 May and look to you to give me sensible and useful advice, cos I
trust you :-)
I know I can trust you - I know this because in my darkest moments when life was not fun, you as a member of this site, gave me strength, laughter and kept me going, soo, I am about to get married and wondered what advice you could give me now in terms of making our lifetime together a great success.
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Packet of Anadin (other brands are available) on the bedside table ... he he.
Chris.
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Keep in mind the three Cs:
Communicate, Compromise, Cherish
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Make sure the time of the marriage fits nicely around meal times :o)
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Dont do it!!
Seriously.
After you both say I do
Theres no more me
Theres no more you
From that day on
For all times thus
Remember that the word is
US
and you wont go wrong'
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erm what Minnie said lol giggles
dont change who ye are cos of a bit of paper..take pride in who ye are...have respect for yerself...and also for your intended...treat each day as if it were ye last...and count yer blessings.
Dont give up yer interests...dont expect him to give up his...and find some common interests together. Stay in contact with yer friends and always remember who was there for ya in yer darkest hours and be there for them when they need you.
wishing you both well for the future. Yer VERY brave lol
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Its a big deal for you and I think your trust leaves you open and at odds with yourself.. I trust it's a blip and a post in the same vein!
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Why not Minnie? Truth is he's my soulmate - bliddy must be cos I was sooo anti it was untrue!
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No need for Anadin or any other tablets! :-)
Ooh heck, you meant him didn't ya SCF? :-)
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Melo, I think you have it in one there! Something in the past I have not managed and tbh the first still is difficult for me but I make the effort more now.
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Ha ha Gsee, hmm, maybe got that right as we will be eating at around 5!
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Good for you JJ.
Ignore the cynics.
Chris.
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my advice .love each other unconditionaley ...doint try to change each other ..remeber you doint own each other ...be two people and grow together as one ...two hearts ..two lives ..one love xx .. i wish you both ... a wonderful life together xxx joolsy
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Thanks Lucy. I think this is something I have struggled with in the past - too scared to concede to 'we' - there were factors that influenced me. Age has possibly helped me realise I need to be more thoughtful and actually , errrgh, trust.
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Thanks Shammy - no, I will not give up being me :-) Not sure brave is a description I would use . .. some may say he is brave to take me on!
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Thanks Shammy - no, I will not give up being me :-) Not sure brave is a description I would use . .. some may say he is brave to take me on!
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Aargh Steve and therein is the big issue to overcome for me 'I think your trust leaves you open and at odds with yourself'
I trusted in the past and got well and truly burned, as indeed others have done. I was determined not to ever be in a relationship again but that thing called love, over-ruled me! So glad it did - cos I am looking to a happy ending :-)
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Thanks Joosly - tis both frightening and exciting :-)
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doint be frightened jules ...you both love each other ..you have the roots ..now a beautful tree will grow ..cherish it ...x
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Follow your heart. No one really know's anyone on this site...
If your heart say's it's the right thing then it is...No Questions asked.
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Just bloody enjoy yourselves!
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My advice would be don't ever ask for advice re dating, romance, love and marriage from anybody on MSE, stick to plumbing, cats and God...
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" I am getting married on 5 May and look to you to give me sensible and useful advice. "
None for you Jules as you've obviously got it all sussed.
However, some of the regulars who have been around far longer than Jules that constantly moan about lack of dates 'might' like to note that if you switch-off your PC once in awhile, get off yer idle arse and out the front door, you to 'could' find happiness like Jules. Because that’s what you HAVE to do (get out in the real) to find romance/love & happiness...
Pleased fer ya Jules, is my invite in the post ?
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