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Profile watchers

who are they?

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Female
Catt  Female  24-Aug-2011 15:15 Reply »
I really don't mind if people are curious enough to look at my profile...

But I wonder why so many look off line..what do they have to hide? I have had 4 today...

If i want to look at anyone I just look ..whatever the consequences
Female
lucyjordan  Female  24-Aug-2011 15:18 Reply »
This site makes your profile available to those who perhaps have found this site, and are considering joining.

A bit of a carrot for the donkey.

these people havent joined so cant 'sign in' by allowing them a glimpse of what might be available, those in charge hope to draw in new members.

there is nothing sinister in it
Female
Catt  Female  24-Aug-2011 15:20 Reply »
Thanks Lucy

However I have heard that some people do log off to look at others so they remain anonymous..gawd knows why though
Male
vanman  Male  24-Aug-2011 15:41 Reply »
Surely if you log off to look at a profile you would have to do a search
and would need to know which county they lived in,
Seems a bit of a long way round.
Female
Catt  Female  24-Aug-2011 15:42 Reply »
I have no idea as i have never tried it..maybe it is hearsay vanman?
Male
Cheeky-Rascal  Male  24-Aug-2011 15:42 Reply »
You usually find that the people that are viewer counter watching will be putting 2 and 2 together and coming up with 10..

Its called paranoia...










Cheeky-Rascal
Female
Catt  Female  24-Aug-2011 15:44 Reply »
lol@cheeky

I don't mind who looks at me just wondered about their motivation
Female
Catt  Female  24-Aug-2011 15:46 Reply »
PS you mentioned it on a thread the other day lol
Male
Cheeky-Rascal  Male  24-Aug-2011 15:48 Reply »
Yep sure did...Doesnt mean to say i do it though...I say alot on here for a giggle..









Cheeky-Rascal
Male
vanman  Male  24-Aug-2011 15:50 Reply »
Just logged off and tried it,
had to fill in all the search details,
and yup, had a look at my own profile, not very exciting.
Female
Catt  Female  24-Aug-2011 15:53 Reply »
Don't we all !!!
Female
Catt  Female  24-Aug-2011 15:53 Reply »
lol vanman ..I am sure someone will find it exciting
Female
lucyjordan  Female  24-Aug-2011 15:56 Reply »
Im afraid i havent found anybody on this site, exciting enough to want to go to all the trouble of logging out to view their profile.
Male
Nigel_In_Devon  Male  24-Aug-2011 15:58 Reply »
I have logged off to look at someone's profile before, particularly after one member complained to me about looking at their profile.

Simplest way of looking without being logged in is to have a thread open that the person has contributed to.
Right click on 'logout' and select open in new window.
Close 'log out' window
Click on user, et voila! ;-)

Female
Catt  Female  24-Aug-2011 15:58 Reply »
Lucy I couldn't be bothered either why be a member if you don't use it?
Female
Catt  Female  24-Aug-2011 16:00 Reply »
Sounds complicated to me Nigel...I can't imagine people generally would want to bother...I won't be trying it that's for sure lol
Male
vanman  Male  24-Aug-2011 16:00 Reply »
was gonna send myself a message,
but you have to log in to do that,
so may as well tell myself what i want to hear,
usually talk to meself anyway!
Male
Nigel_In_Devon  Male  24-Aug-2011 16:04 Reply »
Depends on why one is looking really. The main idea would be, I am sure, to want the person to know you're looking! ;-)
Female
pinkella  Female  24-Aug-2011 16:04 Reply »
How can you look offline? You cant...can you? they just hide themselves once they have looked. Anyone fuck em, so what if they look lol

I know of at least one person who checks my profile most days, they are hidden because they are scared of me.
Female
Jacquey  Female  24-Aug-2011 16:04 Reply »
Dont worry vanman I am constantly doing that, I have quite a good conversation actually !!
Female
Catt  Female  24-Aug-2011 16:06 Reply »
Lol pinks maybe they are scared of me too cos it happens most days.


Being a mathematician numbers jump out at me so i notice when counters change...

Jacquey lol I think some self conversations are quite helpful !
Male
fosyducker  Male  24-Aug-2011 16:16 Reply »
ive always thought its because people are googling something else.

when my screen name was roadrage i had a lot of "offline" viewings, and just assumed its because they googled "roadrage" and my profile popped up as one of the choices?
Male
ErraticDandyInTheHat  Male  24-Aug-2011 16:17 Reply »
I have added landmines and tripwires to my profile...
Female
Catt  Female  24-Aug-2011 16:17 Reply »
lol fosy do you get many now lol

maybe i need to change my name then lol...cos there are lots of catastrophic things going on lol
Male
fosyducker  Male  24-Aug-2011 16:24 Reply »
yes i do actually !

i just googled my screen name and i found me...lol !

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