yuyangs (47) from Essex

Who am I? Let me tell you, I thought this to be an easy thing. I was wrong. Writing about yourself can come off in 2 different ways here. I guess you could say that is one thing about me. I can admit to mistakes and blunders. No shame in learning from them. I figure that would take a certain level of respect, understanding, and patience to accept the criticism. I am generally a laid back person with no real qualms. I treat others as I would want to be treated. Many of times we spend too much time taking and not giving back. Not enough time spent on the little things that matter to everyone. In the end, we are lonely because of our actions, words, or lack of actions. I thinks it just easier to let people know where they stand. So much energy is spent when you seek to deceive. Not many of us think about the negative Karma that will back our way when the lie is done (we think its done). A lie never ends. It perpetuates like empty space. Much like space carries on the dark, and cold. A lie will harness negative energy to manifest in people and in life. A lot of arguments are based upon guilt from a lie, or a deceit. Sometime we squander what little time, or little chance we have for happiness for the next rush. Lust is just strong as love, but it is up to us figure out the difference. Who am I? A thinker (not an analyst) who accepts things for things and keeps the horse behind the carriage. A man who enjoys the company of a woman who could knock me off my feet and still manage to keep me falling. A man who enjoys an intelligent conversation once in a while almost as much as a night of dancing to reggae and R&B. I am a man who enjoys playing sports (swimming) still and enjoys my walking along the beach (getting older now).I was born in the West midlands in a town called Walsall but have lived in various places in England, including Cambridge,Boscombe, Bournemouth,Swanage,Wimborne and Cleve don.
I was married but unfortunately now, I'm separated, and on my own.
Well, I like being in the sun a lot, with the sea lapping round my body, I enjoy a drink, partying and having fun. Cooking I find is fun, Indian, African and any other ethnic food, but I also like good old English grub. I also like Gardening, Wildlife, Painting and trying to play the guitar.
I have various jobs in my life including teaching, selling sun beds in a grass skirt, publican, and civil servant, wh ich is my current job.
I decided to go away and enjoy myself I spent approx 1 yr in The Gambia and 6 monthsI like travelling, and I have been back in England for 8 months after spending 2 yrs abroad, in Zakinthos in GreeceIf I have sparked an interest, contact me and I could put all this into a more coherent rambling. LOL

exciting, lovable , cuddly ,sexy, Would like to meet a cuddly, sexy, woman who likes to travel loves the sea and sun. She must be tacktile and able speak her mind and not bottle things up until it becomes an issue. I have no children , but love them.