Winter Butterfly (44) from West Yorkshire

I'm petite with long dark hair and green eyes.I am through the whole divorce bit and ready to move forward with my life. The Winter Butterfly is ready to spread her wings and feel the warmth of the spring sunshine. I am interested in astrology and all things spiritual. I enjoy an evening out but am also happy to curl up with a bottle of wine and a good film. Generally speaking I am kind and caring .... one of those peple who will stand up on the bus for an elderly person whilst I juggle, with baby on one arm, shopping in the other and hang on to the strap with my teeth, whilst a member of the male species sits there in comfort and watches me with interest to see whether I'm gonna drop baby, drop the shopping, or fall on my ** (sorry ... strike that bit .... I KNOW you're not all alike)

First and foremost I would like a friend. Good relationships are build on friendship. My children mean the world to me so you must like kids. I have two cats (but I have a tendancy to 'adopt' them so I may have more by the time we speak). It would be good if you liked animals too. Make me laugh and I will reciprocate. Comfort me if I'm down and I promise to make you smile on your own down days. Let's discuss our hopes, fears, failures, successes, sorrows and joys. I guess at this point it may be good to tell you what I DON'T like, want, or need in a friend or partner. Are you ready for this??? Don't lie to me ... you will feel my wrath. Don't try to be perfect ... nobody is ... and if YOU try to be it you will highlight MY faults. Don't patronise me ... you will see my sarcastic side ..... yep ... sorry ... I do have one of those .... told you we all have faults ... lol. Most people on here seem to list their good points and miss out the bad but I'm strong on honesty .... so here's a challenge for you. Mail me and list YOUR bad points. If you don't have any then hey .... you aint the guy for me but good luck in your search ...