vodkagirl (46) from West Yorkshire

Quirky blue eyed brunette, with a cheeky smile & a GSOH, looking for a serious relationship but happy to make new friends. I say I'm quiet when I meet new people for the first time but . . . my mates would probably disagree, lol.

I'm a romantic at heart, do the cards, flowers & pineapples thing . . .

I need that special person to be my mate first & foremost.

I need to be treated with respect, as an equal & I do have opinions which I never shy away from sharing?!?! I believe you should treat others with the respect that you expect in return. Though I do like a guy who does the gentlemanly stuff, holding doors open, walking on the outside of pavements (thats what mum always said).

Enjoy nights in & out, happy as long as with good company. I enjoy going to the cinema, going for walks, days at the seaside (Whitby, the most gorgeous place in Yorkshire - its the romantic in me). Not into nightclubs or bars I prefer pubs, country pubs also. Love nights in, either by myself reading or with that special someone & a DVD, couple of drinks while snuggled on the sofa or sprawled on the floor. Hey, I've even been known to cook & there are survivors to tell the tale, lol!

I'm not looking for someone who doesn't want to be involved emotionally - been there got t-shirts. I want the full works, want to be able to give my heart without it being 'returned to sender', to be able to love someone unconditionally knowing that they love me in return. I'm a very tactile, touchy feely person who likes to hold hands in public & if you've got a nice butt I wouldnt be adverse to pinching/touching it. So if its not your thing, thanks for lasting so long with this . . . thats if you're still awake!!!!!!!

Do not have essentials, so you could always send me a message. I don't bite . . . . ok but only if you ask nicely ;)

Now for the hard bit.

A pulse & a personality, pls. A GSOH is a must or am I asking for too much???

Someone who can make me cry with laughter & can hold a good conversation.

A romantic too, yes you know - cards, flowers & little notes . . . ?

Are you the kinda guy who doesn't hide behind an emotional wall, can talk about their feelings & not bottle things up? Don't expect me to be a mind reader or to ignore your moods (sorry, quiet moments, lol).

I want a guy who when its just me, him & a quiet pub can keeping the conversation flowing even if its drivvle that we're talking. I believe in comfortable silences but there's a time & a place for everything.

I believe there's a 'special someone' for everyone, could you be mine? Do you want to find out? If not, thanks for reading & good luck with your search for your 'special someone'.