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vinegartits (49) from South Yorkshire

About me

Outgoing, friendly, kind, funny are some of the words that people might use to describe me.
I am shrinking by the day !! So there is no confusion for some people and save you asking. In Oct 2005 I had Bariatric surgery and had a Gastric band put in place with the result that I have now lost since then nearly 15 stone and another 5 to go. It has not been an easy journey at all..including a week in intensive care after the op for complications. If you feel the need to mail me and tell me I'm fat then please expect a robust response which may just offend!

Romantic, practical and adventurous.
Look forward to getting to know to you...I don't bite !...well only sometimes...

I'm fun, have a great sense of humor, like to laugh and love it from behind ... you be respectful, clean, no drugs, etc. (Preference given to single gents dying of blue balls. LOL)

Okay, update: BBW means Big Beautiful Woman which means in laymen's terms: jiggle with the giggle, cushin' for the pushin', roll-y on your pole-y, FAT

Animal lover, foodie, widely travelled,traveller to unusual places, loves flowers, kisses and cuddles along with candles, massage oil and incense !!

About you

In a word.. someone Unique.

I am looking for an attractive Male who will at first give me obsessive love, praise and devotion - but whose paranoia, self-loathing and fear of rejection and abandonment will eventually lead him to alternately push me away and pull me closer in a love/hate cycle that will lead to infidelity, consensual sexual violence, and the eventual emotional breakdown of one or other party - or if we're lucky - both!

You should:

* be 18 to 99 years old;
* have a history of short, intense, drama-driven relationships;
* enjoy degrading and dehumanising sex;
* have undergone negative psychiatric evaluations in the past; and
* be willing to threaten self-harm and/or annihilation as a weapon to control your partner and make them stay with you and care for you.

Although not completely necessary, I would prefer Men:

* with nice smiles;
* that have larger than average dicks
* who are married or already in unstable relationships;
* that drink to forget; and
* who have had a previous established diagnosis of Borderline or Dependent Personality Disorder or Bi-Polar Affective Disorder - or who are currently taking Lithium Carbonate, SSRIs, or Tri-cyclic antidepressants

If you think you meet these requirements (and wow, I'm getting excited just writing them!), please don't hesitate to get back to me as soon as possible. In the meantime, thank you for reading my advert, and do take care

vinegartits is 49 years old and lives in South Yorkshire. She is single with no children. She's 5' 3" tall and of cuddly build. She's a smoker, who drinks occasionally. She is looking for dating and romance, friendship, hobbies and activities.

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