usuallyLaura Female (59) from Devon

happy, alone - but not lonely ! and certainly not desperate !!!

looking for what ? i don't know... ( perhaps it's a case of once bitten, twice shy ? )

and the simple question is...
is it better to have loved and lost ? or not to have loved at all ?

but...it is the past that makes us who we are, it shapes the way we feel...
i guess we have to get over it! before the future it does steal...

of those that caused us pain - hurt will do it all the time

we have to learn to move on, or it would really be a crime
our lives would remain static with trust and enthusiasm gone

we have to learn from times gone by even if they were wrong !

who knows what fortunes lay ahead ? ( and not just the monetary kind ! )

from now on look ahead with hope... and say what's on your mind


ok, so i'm divorced with a wonderful daughter aged 22.
and kind of think it's time for something for me, instead of being mummy all the time ?

so i joined this wonderful site !


i could go on to say i like this and i like that,

but i have noticed how many people like walking on the beach, so i won't put that !
as the beaches must be so crowded with all these hopeful midsummers' eve members having walks on them !
i just think it's amazing all these men don't find me there with my daughter walking our dogs.

i live in torquay in devon by the way,

and i have no idea whether i could cope with a long distance relationship ?
but who knows !


until i moved 17 years ago i was living only a few minutes away from a beach
( still in torquay tho )
however it was a shingle one ! which kind of summed up life a few years ago.

tho i don't think i look at life all the time thru rose tinted glasses ?
i do believe in happy ever after !


i'm not a devonian by birth, been here for 20 years.

i was born and bred for 17 years in Scotland - so actually i'm glaswegian !

and inbetween Glasgow and Torquay, i stopped off in and around London for 22 years.

i don't think i plan on staying in Torquay or indeed Devon forever.

someone with broad, strong shoulders and a big heart ( for my fragile one )

with a sense of humour to make me laugh

men who are married / in a relationship need not apply !

and no liars either !

nor men that have a problem with me being a single parent, it wasn't my choice, but hey i am one now and that's it ! otherwise i haven't a clue who i'd like to meet ?
( i have no set requirements as such i.e. height / weight / colour of eyes )

but actually i don't like facial hair and i do think too much of an age gap can be problematic...

oh and i think i should say if you are a vegetarian that it's too much like hard work for me...

how do i know until we do !
( meet that is. )


as you've looked at my profile, you'll probably find that i look at yours in return - curiosity is a great thing !

if you continually admire my profile, tee hee i will probably send you a p.m.
( personal message )

so feel free to play the gentleman and leave the first p.m. ?

but please don't send a kiss or ' admire me ' as it won't prompt me into sending you a p.m. first !

Basic facts icon About me

I'm 59 years old and come from Devon in the United Kingdom. I'm divorced with one child. I'm 5' 3" tall and of cuddly build. I'm a smoker and I don't drink. I'm here for dating and friendship.

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Joined 18-Jun-2005
Last logged in   25-Sep-2020
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