ubendum (50) from Tyne and Wear

About me

I am a 50 year old single parent with 2 almost grown up daugters. I am into any kind of outdoor activity, especially mountain walking. I love to find new caves and rock shelters to sleep in or just camp or bivvy under the stars. I have just made a tipi, but have only used it a couple of times so far. I am just a 12 year old at heart I guess. I play music, mostly traditional Irish and punk rock on squeezebox and guitar, not particularly well, but with lots of enthusiasm. I have been a factory worker, a technician, a carpenter, a fisherman, a busker, and a youth worker, not in that order. I work for social services now, and believe in what we do, although I often think we do not do it very well. It also pays a lot better than rock n roll. I always have ten more projects going on than I will ever be able to complete. I do not like dressing up, and have a particular dislike of ties, although I do wear one when it would be disrespectful not to. I am resolutely anti fashion, and buy as many of my clothes as possible from Oxfam. I enjoy roughing it, getting extra value from experience by doing it the hard way. I am also fond of a bit of decadence good food, wine and conversation or chess go down well, as would sitting by a open fire watching an old black and white science fiction movie. I am not usually too keen on clubs and discos, but I can enjoy anything if I am with people who are having fun. My daughters are both vegetarian, so I rarely eat meat, but when I do I do so with enjoyment. I am a tactile and practical person I think with my hands, and like to get stuck into things and worry about understanding them later.

About you

I would like to meet someone with a robust attitude who believes in taking life by the scruff of the neck and living it to the full. I would like to meet someone who appreciates the value of mad schemes, and who has a few of their own. I would like to meet someone with a strong ethical sense, who considers the implications of their actions, and lives according to their own code.

ubendum is 50 years old and lives in Tyne and Wear. He is widowed with two children. He's 5' 10" tall and of average build. He's a non-smoker, who drinks occasionally. He is looking for dating and romance, friendship, hobbies and activities.

Level: 6 Membership level: 6/10