Time Wayfarer (49) from Derbyshire

I have been a member of M.S.E. for a while, though until recently had removed my profile and pictures. Because after my first experience of the site, I did not see the point in writing individual and well constructed letters. Only for those I sent them to, not to have the courtesy to reply, with even a thanks but no thanks. However I have decided to come back and try again.

How can I describe myself, without (on some points) sounding immodest? Well, perhaps the best way would be to say what others have said about me. I have been told I am kind, caring, have virtue, integrity and I am honest. Some say I have a good sense of humour. Though most say I can appreciate, or even develop a humorous aspect to most things. My serious side though has also been recognised by others. Life can sometimes be, a bit like a roller-coaster, with high and low times. My friends know, if they ever need help, I will be there for them.

I have no ‘set in stone’ parameters, but I think there will be some sort of mutual attraction. As to what that might be, only time will tell. Thinking more deeply about this area. I would like a lady who has an understanding and caring nature. Who like me she should appreciate the simple things in life. Perhaps she might value her own space and independence, but also would like to be cared for, in a mutually loving relationship. I would not want to take anything away from her life that she holds dear, only to add to it and hopefully bring joy and happiness.