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T j (44) from Cheshire

About me

I am tall with dark hair hazel eyes slim build but firm all over...:)I wish! , quiet and shy for along time unless I am feeling a little confident at the time, caring and understanding. my female friends say that i am a catch for someone and that i do not look anywhere near the age i am, but i dont share thier confidence. I like the little things in life in touch with my feelings due to past events, now looking to start again, enjoy nights in with a bottle of vodka..!! oops wine or can's I mean and a film, also enjoy nights out with old and new friends,I enjoy good music and play golf "badly" ! lazer quest is great and tenpin bowling also, I also enjoy traveling abroad. looking for someone who will light up my life again to relight that spark that seems to be missing, to have someone to share lifes ups and downs with and to be there for each other on a friendly basis or a more solid relationship, yes you may think "lonely" but are we not all from time to time. If by any chance you can see though this and possible find yourself wondering? well write me a message it need go no further unless you want to find out more. being a photographer I have also after several week now put my mug shot on line so this is me and I also cook and run my own house, washing and ironing cleaning and all that lol!!! well no one esle will so I gotta not unless you want to help me out so I can have more time with you lol ! ! just messin so what you waitin for write me and lets have a laugh if nothing else....!we all need to let go and have a laugh without any pressure . . ! but one last thing looks do count "im truthfull" and will get shot for this I disagree with these people when they say otherwise it in our chemistry but peronallity is what we truely look for after that first eye contact, plus some profiles do say "no photo no reply" and they are from women ..! lol ! !.

so write me a message ITS FREE and i dont bite...well not on a first date anyway...!! lol

(update)
well two years on and still single not a girl friend in sight and no sign of interest, now the stress free easy life style is looking more favourable, spend what i want, do what i want and go where i want with nobody to answer to .... ! what bliss and I can walk around my house comfotable that I also look better in a thong than peter stringfellow, unfortunetly I don't have the wealth he has .....! lol ! but then again I do miss someone to cuddle and dream about.

so can you prove my thoughts and feeling on single life wrong or do you agree and no what i mean .........?
If you are still awake and have not dropped off to sleep after reading my extremely lengthy profile then spare another couple of minutes to make me smile and send me a reply ..........! someone to chat to would also be nice :) ...!!
further update
fed up of being used lied to and messed around why can people not be straight n up front getting fed up of being mister nice guy and getting taken for a ride so can you save me and give me belief again..!

to late, had enough selling up n moving to tenerife and soon :)

About you

caring and understanding, funny, good personality, attractive,slim to medium figure, someone who likes children."but cannot eat a whole one lol!!!"someone how can speak aloud there feelings whether good or bad towards me as I feel without you don't truely know where you stand .don't do mind games....!:)
someone with a trendy dress sense but will leave me space for all my cloths in the wardrobe and not hog all the space as at present I have 32 pairs of jeans ......! :0 I know I really need to stop going shopping so much, or buy more wardrobes :) as my two double robes are full of tops, well as said do what i want spend what i want etc etc......?

I no probably dreaming to much with so much expectation but you gotta try :). my standards maybe slightly high but that is because I cannot use people for one thing and find it had to dump people because Its not nice to be hurt ....!
So in short Im true and straight and don't mess people around and expect the same in return..? As i have been messed around alot and am fed up with that and all the mind games :)

T j is 44 years old and lives in Cheshire. He is divorced with two children. He's 5' 11" tall and of slim build. He's a non-smoker, who drinks occasionally. He is looking for dating and romance, friendship, hobbies and activities, business contacts.

Level: 6 Membership level: 6/10