sugerberty    (50) from Essex

I'm not as scary in real life as my picture.
Looking to find that special lady if she really exists. If you’re a smoker I'll help you quit. Are you that person I seek? I have kids but they are grown up. Not really looking to start another family but I'm not apposed to the idea. I love kids so if you have children that’s fine. Lost my wife in the may of 2005 to leukaemia and my mum in the Nov 2005 to lung cancer, since then I have been so rapped up in work and my daughters I’ve not really looked far ahead but I think its time I looked to the future.
Dislikes? Naughty children, Poor service in restaurants, poor food, milky tea, like a cuppa hot, strong and sweet.
Oh and out of interest my car is the V5 170h Seat Toledo
Ideal partner:
Must be caring, have good sense of humour, like to cuddle up, attentive and be able to make a good cuppa. I like to spoil my woman, go out for a meal, bring flowers or go to the flics, just because i want to take her as a treat.
I like all sorts of films, like a lot of the old movies, Dirty Harry, Short Circuit, also like Star Trek and Star Wars. Like all sorts of music old and new. Like all types of food and ready to try something new. Not into books really unless I can learn from it, Novels ect just don't cut it.
I also hate the word 'Basically'
I don't know what you want but I'm looking for the person that I can share my life with.
I must say I’m a little dismayed, I have sent messages to lots of you ladies and got no reply at all, a simple no thank you would be nice. I don’t bite unless you want me to.
 

As I mature I’ve learned that you cannot make someone love you. All you can do is stalk them and hope they panic and give up.
I’ve learned that no matter how much I care, some people are just ***holes.
I’ve learned that it takes years to build up trust and it takes suspicion, not proof, to destroy it.
I’ve learned that you can get by on charm for about 15 minuets. After that, you’d better have a big willy or huge boobs.
I’ve learned that you shouldn’t compare yourself to others – they are more screwed up than you think.
I’ve learned that you keep vomiting long after you think you’re finished.
I’ve learned that we are responsible for what we do, unless we are celebrities.
I’ve learned that regardless of how hot and steamy a relationship is at first, the passion fades, and there had better be a lot of money to take its place.
I’ve learned that 99% of the time when something isn’t working in your house, one of your kids did it.
I’ve learned that people you care most about in life are taken from you too soon and all the less important ones just never go away.
Every woman has her charm, you just need to know where to look.

Must be caring, have good sense of humour, like to cuddle up, attentive and be able to make a good cuppa.  

sugerberty is 50 years old and lives in Essex. He is widowed with two children. He's 6' 0" tall and of average build. He's a non-smoker, who drinks occasionally. He is looking for friendship.

Level: 4 Trusted member: not yet! Joined on: 09-Jan-2008 Last logged in on: 14-Oct-2008 Last updated profile: 03-Oct-2008   Conversations with sugerberty

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