Scrumptious (51) from County Antrim

I like to think I am kind, thoughtful, caring. Honesty is very important - without that there is nothing to work with.
I just want to be with someone that I want to be with and them with me. Sounds simple but obviously not - otherwise we wouldn't have sites like these!
Like to keep active and reasonably fit. Play football (still) and train a couple of nights a week.
I don't look my age (one girl in work had me ten years younger. )

I prefer action movies but can watch anything from (recently) "Stardust" to "I Am Legend". Music tastes are equally varied from Led Zeppelin (who I have seen live!) to Bob Dylan to Paoulo Nuttini to The Killers...
I like to think I am a good person, kind, helpful, up for a laugh!
If we get together you can tell me if I am right or not!

How do you know - looking for that spark with someone that could build to who know what?
Who am I looking for? Million dollar question - I'll know her when I meet her. The usual trite comments are always good - kind, caring, considerate,honest etc...I will sound shallow here and say someone who is slim and easy on the eye. I know I am no spring chicken and I am sure I have no right to be judgemental - but I think everyone has some opinion of the type of person they would like to be with.
Having said that there is a curvacious girl in work who is so hot - but married!