saab900s (63) from Norfolk

i am a separated lady after 22 years my husband has been having an affair for 5 years plus with a woman 15 years younger than myself and i had no idear until i found a letter to her so i find myself on the shelf and i think there are men out there who have had this done to them, i like going out for meals or a drink i dont smoke i have four grown up children and six grandchildren i am slim light brown hair blue eyes [5 4] hight age 58 but i have been told i dont look my age i take care of myself like eating healthy i like to stay in and cook watch a dvd or go out to concerts i like 60 70 music i love going traveling any where i have traveled a bit i am loyal trustworthy honest and loving i am looking for my soulmate .

I am looking for a friend first then may be a partner to spend the rest of our life with some one who shares the same interests as me, may be just go out as friends for a meal or a drink as its not as nice on your own .