redangel7 (73) from Essex

I am a very active person.you only live once so enjoy life I do.I have been a widow for 5 years.have a big and loveijg family who were my rock when thier father died.but have found the strength to cope.you have to.dont sit about and let life pass you by Idont.I have lots of good friends but most are couples.so can be hard at times.I play bowls for Essex County,and done abailing.gokaring.and have been down in a submerins,was great fun.want to go up in a hotair balloon,so that is my next challenge,none of my friends have the courage to come up with me,so may have to go solo.I do love holidays abroad and at home.love to walk on a sandy beach and feel the warn sand under my feet.love to see the culture of other contries feel how they live.I now feel it is time for me to go back out into the world and live again .miss the clossness of being with someone.the holding hands and cuddles and the laughter ,I do have a wicked sense of humour but am not cruel,love meeting fun people and having a good laugh,as they say laugh and the world laughs with you,I am a good listener and friend who trys to help people in their time of need,we all try to let people know who we really are,but to write down in a few words,what has taken us a life time to achieve,is hard so you just have to be as honest to yourslf as well as to the people who will no doubt read all of this,so this is Me
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I am looking for someone who is a friend first,and if we get on who knows,must have a gsoh.and can laugh at themsleves and with me.are loyal and kind and still have family values,maybe a bit scaty like me ,looks not really important its what is inside that counts every time.just be honest and be yourself cant ask for more than that.and just join the queue ha ha ha if you want to know more drop me a .line,nothing ventured nothing .gained,so they say .I have 2 wonderful children and 7 lovely grandchildren.so I feel truly blessed.we are a close and loving family,its a bit like Litttle House On The Prairie .good though