raymondo999 (50) from Norfolk

Hello

My name is Ray. I live in Costessey, Norwich and work as a Computer Application Support Specialist at the UEA, not as boring as it sounds honest.
Have been separated 9 years and am divorcing this year. Looking for Miss Soul Mate again. I Have three children, G 12, B 14, B 18, that I see twice a week, to theirs to babysit Tues nights and have them alternating Fri/Sat nights, e.g, one week fri night, next week sat night. Love them and been told I am a very good dad. Considered to be easy going and pretty much at ease with myself and other people.
Would like to travel a lot more, 2 - 3 day breaks, and holidays. Love day outings, beach, castles, wildlife parks, theme parks, etc etc etc. Part own two houses, main house is lovely with a big back garden overlooking stables. Ideal for bbq's and lazy summer days, open fire as well, lovely in the winter. Pretty funny chap with a very positive outlook on life, and nearly always have a positive effect on people I meet.
Can mess around and joke a lot but I guess life hasn't got the better of me yet. I have a good selection of friends and excellent social life, but with that something missing.
I work out or play Badminton at club level once or twice a week, to burn calories, stay fit, and keep my boyish good looks !, not to try and look really butch, bulk not good with Badders. I do suffer from 'Competitive Dad Syndrome' and am trying very hard to stop the boys from beating me at any sport. I let Annabel win sometimes at connect 4 - lol. Very good manners and well house trained.
Understand you may have children and that our relationship might be a compromise for some time.

Doing a Part-time Msc in computing at the moment, as well as my job.

Take Care

Ray