RareGem (54) from Derbyshire

Sorry there's no photo – nothing sinister, underhand or embarrassing! Just an honest, innocent explanation (will tell you later). Hopefully you can cope with the disappointment, and you have the patience to wait for a snap or 2 being sent by email.

I am happy to describe myself as charming, attractive, confident, compassionate, warm and sociable. Also, reasonably intelligent, (admit to the occasional act of incompetence), always positive and never arogant. I’d say I value family and friends above most other things, probably take good health too much for granted, and love the kind of peace and tranquility found on a deserted beach or up in the mountains. Laughter is my best medicine and adventure a tonic.

I keep myself in good shape, which is a challenge for anyone who loves rich food as much as I do.

I am most attracted to the confident, sociable type with a sense of humour and set of values that demonstrates respect and consideration for others. Ideally, Bruce Willis lookalike, but I will settle for fit and healthy and not afraid to be romantic and passionate. You will also share my belief that the best things in life are worth waiting for. (That's me of course!)