photony (57) from Derbyshire

I am considered brave---- guess you have to be here!! I am mixture of sweet and kind + sexy with strong sense of direction, !!!passionate about life, about social injustice. I am a trustee of a mental health charity , a HNS health trainer, a member of national arts board. Have to engage with tough emotional stuff over the years still here smiling , (mostly!)! Write published poetry more Phillip Larkin than Pam Ayres!!


"The 21st century is when it all changes and you've got to be ready..." - Captain Jack Harkness


basically a widower...............................................................
sad sometimes --my wife/mum/dad all died at the sametime ish / I am funny in an ironic way/ but ..people make me spark..not boring (refs not supplied!) professionally arty!!!/u please note: I am not an over confident man, but I have sensitivity!!! /Dislike the phrase "no baggage" we all have a personal history, it what shapes us, what makes us who we are..
I TALK TO MY CAT A LOT (sad!!)
I LOVE INTELLIGENT CONVERSATIONS!! DO YOU KNOW THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN WISDOM AND INTELLIGENCE? (CAT LISTENS POLITELY BUT HAS LIMITED RESPONSES!)

I am NOT looking for flings, one night stands, liars etc.. a proper loving friend...no diving in feet first into disaster pleeeeeeease!
and a tolerant person would be great really !!!!!! Sense of Humour essenstial



ask me more (please) FAVORITE ALBUM //ARTHUR LEES :LOVE/FOREVER CHANGES : doesnt it always??? wish i was as laid back as keef richard !!
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Someone who is interested in art, music, kind nature tolerant, interesting ..and sensual!