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photony (53) from Derbyshire

About me

I am considered brave---- guess you have to be here!! I am mixture of sweet and kind + sexy with strong sense of direction, !!!passionate about life, about social injustice. I am a trustee of a mental health charity , a HNS health trainer, a member of national arts board. Have to engage with tough emotional stuff over the years still here smiling , (mostly!)! Write published poetry more Phillip Larkin than Pam Ayres!!

"The 21st century is when it all changes and you've got to be ready..." - Captain Jack Harkness

basically a widower...............................................................
sad sometimes --my wife/mum/dad all died at the sametime ish / I am funny in an ironic way/ but ..people make me spark..not boring (refs not supplied!) professionally arty!!!/u please note: I am not an over confident man, but I have sensitivity!!! /Dislike the phrase "no baggage" we all have a personal history, it what shapes us, what makes us who we are..
I TALK TO MY CAT A LOT (sad!!)
I LOVE INTELLIGENT CONVERSATIONS!! DO YOU KNOW THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN WISDOM AND INTELLIGENCE? (CAT LISTENS POLITELY BUT HAS LIMITED RESPONSES!)

I am NOT looking for flings, one night stands, liars etc.. a proper loving friend...no diving in feet first into disaster pleeeeeeease!
and a tolerant person would be great really !!!!!! Sense of Humour essenstial

ask me more (please) FAVORITE ALBUM //ARTHUR LEES :LOVE/FOREVER CHANGES : doesnt it always??? wish i was as laid back as keef richard !!
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About you

Someone who is interested in art, music, kind nature tolerant, interesting ..and sensual!

photony is 53 years old and lives in Derbyshire. He is widowed with two children. He's 6' 0" tall and of cuddly build. He's a non-smoker, who drinks occasionally. He is looking for dating and romance, friendship.

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