Phoenixstar (43) from Leicestershire

Hello there..

I am a mum of four, two adult lads and two small ones! The lads take care of themselves now but the smallest do take up a lot of my time, so time just for me is both precious and limited. I work in the nhs as a midwife and I'm also interested in alternative therapies. The spiritual world fascinates me and so I'd like to meet someone who is also interested, or at least open minded. I love the beach/coast and if I lived close by, I would be out walking along it in all weathers if I could. Sadly, I couldn't live further away. I did a lot of Salsa & Ceroc before the littlest people came along..not so much now, though I am taking up Ceroc again now I'm getting back on track with life :-)

I think I am an easy going, down to earth kind of person (don't we all!). I am happy to slum it but equally as happy to dress up and I reckon I scrub up ok when I put the effort in! You might think differently however..what is one man's meat is another man's poison as they say!

So that is a little about me..if you want to know more, just ask! I have probably put a fair few of you off by now..but I would rather be straight and upfront than sugar coat anything.

Been separated a while now and ready to dip my toe in the waters of the dating game again. I am quite open minded and have no set ideals of who I'd like to meet but I will not date married men, nor am I into one night stands or casual sex so please don't message me if that is what you want.