Phantussy    (39) from Devon 

Intelligent, confident, sensual and affectionate. Thoughtful and demure at times...passionate and outgoing at others, fun-loving and sometimes slightly mad...but in good way...Hopefully ;-) Boundless energy, enthusiasm and the ability to make friends with anyone.

***WARNING - I have a naturally cheeky and flirty personality that can get me into trubble without even realising it, but it is always well meaning!***

A girly-girl that likes piercings, making an effort, dressing up and changing my hair colour, but still not afraid to muck in and get my hands dirty. Fanatical shoe shopper and avid coffee drinker, i have been described as many things that I sure couldn’t repeat here, but then it is t'internet and i could be anyone or anything, so i will leave it up to you to make your own impressions when we meet. Of course i am prone to bouts of non motivation and sloth... who isn't? i know that i am far from perfect... who is?

I have little or no time for any 'isms', rudeness, lies or deceit, bad manners, violence, jealousy, gossip, inconcistency, unfriendliness and rumourmongering,
I hate needles,crumpets, horror movies, marmite, being ill, hangovers, underwear,strawberries, socks, bread with bits in it, not getting lots of hugs, being alone.

I love to laugh, have fun, pillow fight and sometimes just be really silly! After all why do we have to be 'grown-ups' all of the time? I am essentially idealistic and want to shower the world with oodles of sparkly fairy dust, bringing love, laugher and happiness to a dull reality, encouraging inner beauty, inner peace and self worth for all.

I have 2 girls aged 14 & 18, and live in the far side of the dating universe.. previously known as North Devon. I have done the stay at home mom thing and then spent some time at college - now working in a bookies and luvvin it.. there isnt many jobs that you can get regular hugs, kisses, laugh, flirt, chat, drink coffee and get paid for it! looking forward to doing the deputy managers course in the future.

Into Rock and 80’s music primarily but there is some great stuff around at the moment and if i like it .. i like it. Love Indian and Chinese... or anything hot and spicey! not keen on chocolate, adore Haggen dazs and ben n jerrys (even though they are always telling me to get my own!)could live off of Greek yoghurt and berries, I am anyones for a glass or three of Baileys, sometimes feel like a brandy and babysham and I like my wine white and sometimes bubbly.

Love the beach ( well its kinda mandatory living 5 mins from it!) the sounds of a storm, rain on the window (when i am safely inside!) as well as all the usual stuff we always put here…reading, writing, crafts, diy, movies, music, friends, family, pubs, … showering, eating, drinking, sleeping, housework ( ok i lied there! ) breathing ect..ect.
 

Well, i think that i am past the stage where i think that i might meet someone on here.... maybe i am jaded and think that i am past the stage of meeting anyone full stop?But hey ho... you have to be in it to win it.

My friends and family give me most of what i need, but i really am a better person as part of a double act, i do miss the physical... kisses and cuddles, hand holding, that flutter of excitement when i see them, doing things together... even doing nothing.. but doing it together! romance ( no grand gestures, just simple things) and just 'being'

Looks, age, size/shape, location and wealth are alot less important to me than personality and humour. I don't have a 'type' in the looks stakes, all of my previous partners have been totally different apart from the fact that i fancied them all.

i do find myself attracted more by a certain kind of personality, a little bit odd and strange, unconventional, funny, silly at times, tactile, wholy supportive of friends and family, open-minded, motivated and interested in the world (their own and in general) Has to be able to make me laugh - not nessecarily always politically correct. Young at heart, naughty, cheeky, adventurous, honest, kind and sincere, someone who is a survivor and not prepared to let their past destroy their future.

Of course.... there has to be some form of physical attraction there too... and thats not nessecarily classic good looks, but something that i find sexy and attractive when i am with them, could be the way they raise an eyebrow when i am being daft or a wicked twinkle in their eye when they think i am not looking... its indescribable, there is no formula or check-list and i never know what it is untill i meet that person... chances are we will be friends first rather than some spur of the moment passion....not that i would say no to that either!
 

Phantussy is 39 years old and lives in Devon. She is single with two children. She's 5' 5" tall and of cuddly build. She's a smoker, who drinks occasionally. She is looking for dating and romance, friendship, hobbies and activities.

Level: 9 Trusted member: yes! Joined on: 01-Sep-2006 Last logged in on: 16-May-2008 Last updated profile: 10-Apr-2008   Conversations with Phantussy

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