Nijntje (38) from South West London

I've been in London for the past 12 years but am originally from Hong Kong (Chinese). I'm currently a secretary for a hotel head office.

Without being boring, I like all the usual things - travelling, culture, music, food, drink, dance, socialising etc. A few slightly less ordinary interests: walking around town especially going to markets, learning language and belly dancing.

Also you must know I'm an Arsenal fan, in case that matters to you.

I would like to meet someone who is similar to me (up to 45 years old), who is kind, considerate, helpful, compassionate, strong minded, realistic, hard-working, enjoy life, with a lovely smile; someone a bit more active than me to motivate me but also enjoys some down time to relax.

Would be great if he enjoys watching football or other sports but it's not a deal breaker. I'm more of a spectator than participant so if you like playing, I will be there to cheer you on, and give you some oranges at half time. ;)

I'm hoping this site will bring me a gentleman who is genuinely wanting to date and see what happens. Someone who would like to see me again because they want to get to know me as a person.