nexus6 (44) from Middlesex

HI there. I'm a 40 (soon to be 41) year old male looking for a woman I can love and especially trust.

Bad stuff first. I am fairly geeky (but not by my own admission) and have a few phobias (which means I don't eat out) and have, apparently, a capacity to be stubborn when required. Wear Harry Potter style glasses but I've been wearing the same frames for more than twenty years so I got here first! Am fairly lazy but am quite amenable to being ordered around and performing most tasks as long as clear instructions are given ;-)

Good stuff next then. Passionate, loyal, want constant hugs and fairly large dollops of beyond kinky sex. I am the person who will be their for you at the end of the day to listen to you about all your tough times and good times about your day.

Can happily make suggestions and comments but am happy to just shut up and listen as required. I am their for YOU if you'll be their for me.

Love films - have well over 1,500 movies on DVD. If you want to explore film as well as a loving relationship... then I am your absolutely best place to start.

I want a happy ever after style relationship to end all relationships. Kids a distinct possibility if we can afford it and I am with someone who I can trust and who I think would make a good mother.

I want to meet the person who will become my world for the rest of my life. Someone who doesn't mind that I prefer to hand-make my own, special valentines and christmas cards (I am, after all, a graphic designer) and who will appreciate my hidden talents.