matrix (53) from East Anglia

Hi,
Thanks for taking a peek!
Am a typical woman, I am ambiguous, worry about the size of my backside and love chocolate.....I am also a control freak so the chocolate has not had much of an impact on my size, it just acts like a sedative, however I am a warm and loving control freak... so that makes me feel better.
Love animals and am the proud provider of Kitekat to Derek, (ever tried to own a cat...forget it!)
Live quite near to the coast and love the sea, even though the beach is Sizewell, nothing like a bit of nuclear waste to brighten up your day.
Enjoy gardening.....have green fingers,( must be the fall out.)
Am a good cook and enjoy eating out, love to be pleasantly surprised and can be romantic.
Will insist on doing the crossword every day, at the moment this happens in bed but am willing to compromise.....
Just an ordinary woman looking for a man who can treat her with respect and love her for who she is, rather than who he wants her to be.
Have been known to paint, that's pictures not walls although can do that too but would prefer someone to share that stuff with me again.
Have a deeply spiritual side, believe in the sanctity of life, don't claim to understand anything fully.... but I am curious.

I don't smoke, so smoking would be a problem.
I need a man who is comfortable with himself, who has integrity and is a gentleman. Being mean is definately not attractive as I am a giving person..
....not necessarily talking about money here.
Sense of humour and the ability to laugh at yourself is a real turn on!