marmarc41 (41) from central London

I suppose Im looking for that special ingredient that can be so elusive,a feeling that doesn't overwhelm,but gives a warm feeling inside,I've lost some hope in finding it,but thought i'd give it another go I think the problem with dating sites is we have the tendency too expect too much,Im not saying people should lower their standards,but things are rarely black or white,nobody is perfect,but for each other ? well who knows?

My expectations are quite low,having used dating sites on & off for past 6 years,i have met some really nice people but didn't find that special feeling, maybe Im being naive,but some butterflies & a real "want" to see that person again is not asking too much,is it? maybe them "feelings" are more to do with "us" & not with who we meet? Anyway Im back for some chat,to find someone who is genuine,go for a coffee & see where the wind blows us :)