LoveLifeToTheLimit (51) from the West Midlands

I'm fit, 5'10", straight male, fun-loving, solvent, now divorced, ex-rugby player. I am confident, not cocky, like to be spontaneous, enjoy travelling, love cosy moments, miss cuddles, enjoy adventures, love kids, like some pets, enjoy boats and the water, romantic dinners, walks on the beach, some roller-coasters, snow ski-ing and some theatre.
I've decided I've wasted time and don't like it. I don't smoke, but don't mind people that do.
I enjoy giving pleasure, just to see the pleasure it gives, but don't like being taken advantage of.
I crave excitement, whether simply looking forward to seeing someone, doing something special, or planning for anything.
I love the comfort of loving company.
I can enjoy constructive discussions, even arguments with 'real' people.
I can be a little cynical at first.
I enjoy pampering and pleasuring an appreciative partner.

An average real person, that feels good and quietly confident about themselves, with the right encouragement. Age/looks not too important, although 44-54 probably fits. Ideally a slimmish or relatively fit "homely" type that likes to laugh and have some fun, and takes more pride in their practical view of life and dress-sense than the thickness of make-up (if you think you are gods gift to all men then please enter someone elses life), no major extroverts (although a little showing-off can be great fun), just an average human lady that likes to be treated right, share good times and enjoy life to the full without going OTT too often.
Into sharing:-some time, laughter, trips, passion, thoughts, special moments, interests, occasional silence that simply feels good.
A possible kindred spirit that also thinks life is becoming all too short and is prepared to change things, not just talk about it. Someone that also loves life, feels good to be alive and wants to make the most of it.

Well there it is- are you out there?please e-mail me now and let's get on with living ... today
Really looking forward to hearing from you.
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