justaniceguy (57) from Lancashire

Hi, my name is james,i am 55years old,6feet tall and a hospital worker within the blackpool area.I am very easy to get on with.I have two grown up daughters who live away.I am just a big softie really!ok i'm a bit overweight I always class myself as kind and considerate.Iam not prepared to grow old just yet! I certainly have a good sence of humour. enjoy a good night out, I enjoy the theatre love rock music, cinema, love going for a meal, I enjoy meeting people. I do get a lot of pleasure in helping people, when somebodys back is up against the wall i am always the first one there. I like to go for a social drink but by no means a heavy drinker.I always have a calm temprement and absolutely hate violence. I was a registered carer to my mother who sadly passed away recently,i think now is the time to go out and start enoying myself again

I feel that i have a lot to give,I do miss the companionship of a lady. a friend maybe a relationship.somebody to care about.
I suppose i enjoy being spontainious, buying a bunch of flowers for no reason at all. to be quite honest, if i find i have one more male friend i am going to put my head in a bucket and scream!! What ever happened to the affection of a lady?