Jomailme (57) from Hampshire

Intelligent, passionate, deep thinking, fun loving with a zest for life and all it offers.

I love the small things a relationship offers, holding hands, my heart lifting when I think of you, planning little surprises. Catching your eye in a crowded room.

I am a free thinking, intelligent woman, enjoying current affairs and am always open to learn new things. I haven't much time for TV, there are a million better things to do. However, books are one of my major loves. Live theatre, gardening and much more. I love travelling and have a home in Turkey. I enjoy meeting people, experiencing other cultures and socialising, would you like to do some of this with me?

I am now interested in exploring my spirituality and generally becoming a better all round person. I have my faults, don't we all? However, I am aware what they are, and I am making positive attempts to change, but like everybody, I am and will continue to be a work in progress.

I love creativity, the arts, theatre, and music. My tastes are varied. It includes the blues, gospel, world music, jazz and of course being a child of the sixties, Bob Dylan and his peers.

The only people I now choose to spend time with, are those who are kind, caring creative and generous of spirit. I have no time for meanness, petty jealousy, competition or downright cruelty. There is already too much in the world, and I don't need it in my life.

I am looking for that time when I will have time for time, no more diary or agendas. To enjoy the world around me, spend time with those that make me feel good. To explore my creativity and spirituality and watch my garden grow. Simple things, for they are the most valuable.

Life with me will never be boring, life is for living, and I am looking for somebody to join me on my life's journey. Are you that special person?

I am looking for a mature, honest, intelligent and loving man. Secure in himself, strong but not macho, able to talk about his feelings. A man capable of committing to a relationship.

Can you make me laugh, are you a romantic, would you woo me? Would you let me love and cherish you? I love an intelligent free thinking man, not neccesarily formally educated, but with an active brain and keen to learn new things?

Somebody with the courage to explore themselves, who has a vision of a future that is gentle and kind. A man who wants to share his creativity and values people more then things.

I don't care what you do, I do care who you are. Unconventional is fine. I am not here to change you, or you me. It should be the meeting of two people on equal ground. What I'm looking for is a friend, lover and soulmate to share my life's journey with me, is that you?

Honesty, fidelity and trust must be at the core of your being, I would want to be friends first and if anything else develops that would be great. However a good friendship is far better, then a bad relationship. For all of you who read this, I hope you find what you are seeking.