johnhutch3020 (60) from South Yorkshire

Sitting comfortably? - Good, then I will begin. I am 5' 9" tall and 57 years old, though my friend's say I don't look it, or act it. I am of medium-ish build with mousey grey hair and blue grey eyes. I wear glasses for driving and for my work. I like to dress smartly and take a pride in my appearance, although I can be a bit of a slob sometimes when I am relaxing. Confession Time! Unashamed Romantic, Truth Addict, Dreamer, I can be quite untidy at times, can't stand bores and shallow insensitive people, Love to touch, kiss, stroke, caress, tease and cuddle, feel skin on skin. To pamper and be pampered, to be mentally and physically stimulated, can't sit, or lie still very long, without something (or somebody) to occupy my mind and body, unless I am asleep. I am a terrible tease, still a mischievous little boy at heart, quite cheeky and full of sexual innuendo (with the right person of course), a little crazy at times, very spontaneous (to Think It, is to Do It) I suppose that means at times, I may be seen as unpredictable, but I am dependable and reliable. I have a terrible memory, have to write everything down, then forget where I wrote it, or loose the little yellow "Post It's", need to share lots of TLC, both ways, can't stand being unclean or dirty and like everything to smell wonderful. Speak my mind, Say what I mean and Mean what I Say, I am a One Woman Man and expect a woman to be a One Man Woman (that took some getting straight), hope you understand. Enough of the Confessions. I like to have a good time and try to live life to the full each and every day, and make the best of every opportunity. I enjoy trying new and different things and will try anything at least once, except Hang Gliding, Mountain Climbing or anything else which is dangerous to my physical well being, I prefer the more gentle pursuits of life, gentle strolls in the country or by the sea, or just wandering around little market towns looking at the shops and enjoying the atmosphere. I enjoy good food and absolutely love Indian cuisine, I like to cook, but it's more fun when you can prepare a meal for someone else as well, then they can help with the washing and cleaning up. In fact most things are better when there are two to share them, drives in the country, a walk in the park or strolling on the beach watching the sea, holding hands, laughter and enjoying life together, sharing special moments. You've probably gathered that I am an incurable romantic, and a bit of a dreamer, but that's me, and I wouldn't change myself. I enjoy good conversation about anything and everything and have views about most things in life, and at times like to discuss the meaning of life, I suppose I can be a bit philosophical at times, but I hope never boring. On the other hand sometimes its hard to get a serious word out of me, I like to laugh and joke, and as you know, can be a terrible tease, always ready with a joke, although not always clean, generally very funny. I love going to the cinema and watching a good action adventure film, or staying at home with a good video, a bottle of wine and an Indian take-away or just listening to my favourite music. My musical tastes vary from popular classical, the type we hear on the TV advertisements to "Def Leppard" and "Queen". But I enjoy "Celine Dion", "Simply Red", "Michael Bolton" and "Lionel Richie" type songs the best, what a soft smoothie eh? Care to come and join me? You bring the wine I will provide the music and laughter, soft lights and an atmosphere of soft relaxed enjoyment. I enjoy my life and interests and would love to share new and different things with someone very special to me.

If asked to describe my "Ideal Lady" I would have to say that she's feminine, reasonably good looking, well dressed and has a brilliant personality and sense of humour, (I love to laugh) and she would have a smile that reaches her eyes. She would be loving and caring, kind and generous, honest and reliable, considerate, extremely understanding, and would enjoy being the "apple of my eye", and my soul mate. As I confessed earlier to being a dreamer, I am aware that the chances of finding a lady, who possesses all of the aforementioned qualities, are slim, but it would be nice to find someone who at least comes somewhere close to being my ideal Woman. And after All "Dare to Dream" and who knows, It may just come True. Well, I guess that's me in a "Nutshell". All that remains now is for you to decide whether or not the "Nut" appeals to you,