James Male (50) from West Yorkshire

I've always believed that there's a better and more positive alternative to most things that I see and experience in this life. In the workplace particularly, I refuse to accept the mediocrity of the norm that stifles personal creativity for new and original idea. Society in almost every aspect continues to perpetuate the view of self denial, limitation and personal anonymity for the good of the 'greater cause'. Well as far as I'm concerned the 'Greater cause' is inextricably flawed and will be cyclically perpetuated indefinitely, which means for me personally at least, I'm having none of it and not ever again.

I lived almost all of my life inextricably caught up in and believing the lie without doubt or capability of questioning any aspect of it. To the point that I became and lived up to every negative expectation society deemed fit for me, despite intuitely knowing that what I was becoming was the complete opposite to who I naturally was inside. To cut a long one short, I know the truth the whole truth and nothing but the truth now as to who I am for real, at least my true potential anyhow and nothing not least of all society will ever again prevent me from realising it.

I want to create a working project and philosophy that positively challenges everything that denies or prevents in any way the human potential. People will think me naïve, a romantic idealist with my head stuck up in the day dreamy clouds! Another confused and deluded proponent of that impossibly far removed ‘Utopian Dream’ scenario! But I don’t base what I feel and know on anything but my own new belief system. Utopia is a perfect ideal, but the ideal that we human beings need to understand is one far less perfect than that. At least for now anyway in our present state of human awareness. I am naïve, I am a romantic idealist and my head is very often stuck up in the day dreamy clouds and I make no apology for it! I love and adore it truly I do. But one thing I am more than any other right Now, is utterly selfish in my intent to evolve. To continually deny my present sense of human limitation and stunted growth. To understand new concept, new ideal, new perception, new life! I always knew I was much much more than I was and now because of my single minded determination and personal effort, I’m beginning to experience Just how amazingly true that fact is!

Look, I don’t know about anyone else out there but for me, I’m sick fed up and monotonously tired of having to do things in the so called socially accepted way. The ‘only’ way, if You Believe it! Working for companies or bosses that treat You like crap and pay you Peanuts for the misery of it. Having to take abuse from people just because they’re ‘Superior’ to You and have had a bad weekend or fight with the wife. Where you’re persistently undervalued and invested in as a Worker and individual. Where your ideas and imaginations are kept stifled or ignored, controlled by company procedures and protocols enough to make You sick with boredom. Where limitation and ordinariness is believed to be, the way! The only way! In fact it’s almost ferkin law in the society I’m barely living in. Just be ordinary, controllable, don’t get above yourself, remember your place. This is how it’s done, how it’s always been done. Who are you to dare imply that there’s any better alternative! Well you’re wrong so just accept it and think yourself lucky, there’s people in this World far off worse than you are. And besides, you’re too individually insignificant to even attempt a challenge of such world and widely used ways as have been tried and tested for thousands apon thousands of years. Well, Barlacks is all I can say to that!

I’ve always believed there’s better ways than I’ve experienced, read about, knew of. Always believed it and now it’s my devout intention to prove it and set up this Production Company which will be run my way,

The Happy House Way.


It’s never going to be perfect, but it’s core principle will drive it relentlessly toward that ideal. Happiness and Positivity will be the overwhelming force of influence and which will negate to overcome any and all obstacle in its way! Impossible,, only exists until we find a way around it and there is always a way around it! Always!


One of the main aims of this company will be to work with young people and people in society labeled failures and outcasts and to devise a working plan which assesses to highlight individual and young peoples belief systems and to show that who and what they think themselves negatively to be and not least of all how others perceive them to negatively be, is not in truth the reality of who they actually are in any way shape or form. To then organise personal and group challenges and projects that serve to dispel through positive involvement and success the negatively enforced societal myth that as indviduals all that they're good for is nothing.

I believe implicitly that there are better and more positive alternatives to most things in this life and I intend to prove it. I'm looking to set up a production company working in the arts, Street Theatre, Fly on The Wall Dramas, Art, Education, Dance, Music, Literature, Design, Invention etc and I'm looking for other people interested in working with me to achieve this. All you need to be is an overwhelmingly positive and happy person who intuitively believes that the concept of 'humanly impossible' is a big fat and ugly lie. If like me you're sick fed up of mediocrity and the norm and would like the opportunity to prove that there's far better alternatives just waiting to be uncovered get in touch and we'll arrange a meet to discuss it all in more detail. I have loads of ideas for what I would like to do with this company and would love other people to get involved and to bring their ideas to the meet with mine and then see where we take them.

If you're interested in getting involved with this contact me on the appropriate site link and we'll see in a bit if our two peices, fit, so to speak.
Hopelessly happy and honestly human!

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I'm 50 years old and come from West Yorkshire in the United Kingdom. I'm single with two children. I'm 5' 11" tall and I have an athletic build. I don't smoke and I drink occasionally. I'm here for dating.

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