itsonlyme (54) from Hampshire

What can I say about myself that hasn`t been said by many people before!! Hmmm!! thinking about it maybe that`s not such a good idea after all I wouldn`t want you to get the wrong idea about me!!!
I would say that I`m a sraight forward,down to earth laid back person that`s not prone to taking life too seriously (unless the occasion calls for it) as my belief is that we only get one go at this so we might aswell enjoy it:-).
I tend to be the sort of person that tells it as I see it (not always a good idea I`ve found)and I don`t pretend to be something I`m not.
I am independant and not looking for someone to mother me,smother me,cook,clean or iron for me(mind you if you enjoy ironing well!!!!!!!!!!)not looking to move in with you ,expecting you to have my babies or open a joint account with you!!
I could now go on to write about moonlit walks on the beach and cuddling up infront of a log fire but it`s all been done so many times and most of the time it`s put in these things because we think it`s what you want to read but I like to think you`re all more inteligent than that and realise that although they are enjoyable real life isn`t about that all of the time:-)
Ok if you havn`t got bored with reading this yet or dismissed me as some ranting idiot why not drop me a line and have a chat after all what have you got to lose apart from maybe your sanity!! and I appologise for the pic I know it makes look like some grinning buffoon but it was the best I could find.
Anyway heres hoping to hear from someone:-)

I don`t know if I have any idea what the perfect partner would be after all nobodys perfect!
Someone open minded with a good sense of humour who likes to laugh and enjoy life owuld be a good start but I have no agenda laid out doing this not really expecting the next person I meet to be the next big relationship making some new friends would be a good start and see what happens from there:-)