Hunky Professional (54) from South West London

I am 49 years old but am often believed to be much younger or so I've been told. I am also very fit as a result of working out in the gym most evenings. I was a British Gymnast (many years ago!).

I have blonde hair with brown eyes and an average to athletic build. I am considered to be attractive rather than handsome (if you consider Rod Stewart to be attractive as he is what I am told I look like), quite modern and like to present myself smartly, whether wearing jeans or a suit. I am happily divorced and have been for over ten years. I have three children, one lives in Jersey and my two sons live with their mum.

I run my own business, aranging finance for businesses, specialising in vehicle finance. By profession I am an accountant. I also run training courses and provide consultancy to anyone who is prepared to pay my ridiculous rates! I have written a book on vehicle finance. My current favourite saying is: "Better to regret the things you've done rather than the things you didn't do. I love music but mainly only black music ie R&B, Soul, Garage, House (I used to be a DJ). I still love clubbing but am fed up dating the girls that I tend to meet in the clubs - hence this advert. I enjoy eating out, cinema, theatre,travel and anything that makes me laugh - I'm told that I am funny but I can't tell a joke to save my life, and I love anything romantic with a special lady. I have taken a course on massage and aromatherapy and love to give a massage! I love it when a girlfriend walks into a room and my heart starts beating 15 to the dozen - hasn't happened lately!!! I am very attentive and am very much a giver in a relationship.

Oh by the way I don't stop talking - not that you would believe it, so don't think that you will have a quiet time with me on a date!

I am looking for an attractive lady. Whilst looks are important to me I value intelligence, honesty, integrity and a great sense of humour. I am not ageist, I have dated a very wide range of women from 27 to 44, no taller than 5'5" (As I am 5'9"), from all sorts of ethnic backgrounds. I like the lady to be tactile and romantic and like similar music to me, (last girlfriend had a passion for country & western - YUK!!). I have never smoked and I would prefer a non smoker, but I don't have a problem with a light smoker. I love to love and miss cuddles with the right person, I never say never to anything including marriage or children. So it's now over to you. Contact me and we can exchange photos!!