garybrettc (50) from Dorset

thanks for taking a few seconds to look at my profile, i'm a struggling self taught artist, struggling so much i guess i'll never pay the bills this way but hey never mind there are worse things in life than being poor. Seriously, i'm passionate about painting but I think I will have to have it just as a hobby and actually go back out and earn a proper living. I do some voluntary counselling and will probably train in this field, hmmm - artistic and caring, i'm in serious danger of sounding like a nice person, i had better balance that right now by telling you some of my bad points. Like most men I can be selfish, lazy and downright boring but I should say that these are only occaisional traits. Other than being poor, lazy, selfish and boring I am a great catch....oh did i mention i have a nice line in self-deprecating humour, well i think i do even if you don't.

my ideal match?

sense of humour is very important to me as is intelligence, not necessarily acedemic but someone who is interested in a wide range of topics and can hold a conversation. looks are important in so much as there has to be an attraction between 2 people. generally i prefer petite women but i don't have any hard and fast rules. the most important thing is chemistry and that can't be quantified or described and will only be discovered if we meet.