fedristhered (37) from Norfolk

What am I like? I'm kinda like a lummox but without the clogs. I have an off-beat sense of humour, I'm told I look younger than I am and allegedly I'm "cool" according to some people of course according to others I'm weird, a nerd or "that big chappie with the hair"

In my opinion I'm fairly laid back, maybe a little shy occasionally all depends if I'm having a good day or not. I'm honest sometimes too much so but I try not to be blunt if I can help it

What do I do? Well I'm sort of a part-time warehouse odd-job doer of things. When I'm not doing that I'm either getting on with my book (Which I should really be doing now and not this...) or playing computer games. As until recently I worked evenings and weekend evenings, my social life went the same way as my sanity so now I'm trying to resurrect it (my social life...my sanity is very much a lost cause.)

You can probably tell from my tags, my interests sway toward the geeky side of the tracks. I make no excuses for this but I am house trained enough not to run on about "reversing the flow", "Hairy toed halflings" "using the force" etc. etc. (Well unless I'm prompted by circumstances)

I can't play an instrument or sing; so to make up for this I listen to lots of other peoples music. My tastes are fairly broad but I like emotive music (But not emo music...don't get me started!!) to give you an idea in the time I've been writing this my computer has played tracks by Frontline Assembly, Gnarls Barkley, Kosheen, Fear Factory, Nine Inch Nails and Joy Division. To be honest the only genres I can't get into are emo, country and western and Modern R+B (I like proper Rhythm and Blues though.)

I don't drive, but I'll never rely on someone else. Norwich is about an hours bus journey for me so its not really a problem to meet my peeps halfway.

Someone on a bus route...ha!! Seriously though. I'd like to meet someone with similar outlook on things that I have. Into the same sort of music. Someone who was as happy discussing the mysteries of the universe as the were going into a toyshop to see what they could make beep and flash. (Which lots of people do but nobody admits to!!)

Recreational Drug use is a major no-no and I'd prefer to meet a non-smoker, but drinking alchohol is fine as long as they don't mind the fact that I don't. Someone tall would be nice but not essential. I guess someone who didn't mind me being me; because I can't really be anyone else.

I'm not really a children orientated person, years of working in retail have left me with a somewhat jaded view of them. I like fuzzy animals though (as well as scaly ones, hairy ones, feathery ones and slimy ones...but from a safe distance!!)

age wise; well when I'm given the options in a drop down box I generally say between 23 and 35. I'm not out to be anyones sugar daddy or toy boy (Even writing the words makes me feel queasy!!)

I think that about wraps it up; don't want much do I!!