dingg (46) from Cumbria

Good question, how to describe yourself. I’m a very adventurous and outgoing person, but I am also quite happy to be quiet. I’m very deep and sensitive with the right person, but am a very strong person to others and rarely get myself wound up over things.

I’ve been separated for more than 18mnths and have my son living with me, my other children stay with their mother.

I’m very easy going and think that life is for living and enjoying and love new experiences. I tend to give everything to my partner and friends, and expect the same back, would much better have quality than quantity in any part of my life. I am very loving and don’t do bad on the romantic side either lol. Very attentive, love cuddling and holding hands, soft eh? Lol. And not afraid to show my affection in public or otherwise. Although I am a strong person I can be hurt very easily by the person I love and I don’t want a volatile relationship.

I am very lucky and have a very good job and have never been out of work, never likely to be, will always find something to do. Would quite like to start my own business up if I was ever made redundant.

I’m very faithful and monogamous, and great (or should that be warped lol) sense of humour. Would rather laugh at things and have fun than fall out, although making up can be fun as well lol.

I have far too many interests and hobbies, can turn my hand to anything although I’m a Professional Electrical Engineer by trade, love blacksmithing/ leatherworking/ cooking/ DIY/ car maint all sorts of things. Enjoy the outside more than being in, and far happier doing things than watching the tv.

But, Im missing a best friend/ solemate and lover. I have a very high sex drive (best be honest at the outset). I’m not looking for a one stand, if you are then don’t bother getting in touch. But I am looking for someone that I am compatable with. I’m looking for a loving long term relationship with my solemate and best friend. A love life is far better with a person you are in love with.

What am I looking for, someone who is easy going, bubbly, positive outlook on life and believes that any problem can be solved if you put your mind to it.
Would prefer someone of average build or slim, but lets be honest personality is far more important. Looking for someone bubbly, honest, says what they mean, and young thinking.

Am I asking the impossible here lol?