Debz234 (48) from Nottinghamshire

Hello, my name is debbie and i have four girls 21, 19, 16, 14. Two live at home and two have their own flats. im studying for a Degree at Derby University in Community Regeneration and volunteer two days a wk as a support worker for adults with learning disabilities. I hope to finish my studies next july and move into employment, its a goal i take seriously but loving every minute. I loves groups of people and enjoy family life the GOOD and the BAD !! I love music all types from Nick Drake to Soul to Jazz and Rock, we are a musical family and my kids keep me young at heart. I work hard and i play hard and believe in karma, my politics are social justice for all and freedom.

I was married for 16 yrs and had 4 children it was a violent marriage and i had to leave. Since then iv had lots of strange relationships and thought i was in love many times, however its seems nobody really understands me and wants to change who i am. I believe that love should be cool and stress free, just respect and love and honesty is all you need, we shouldnt try and change who we are for others. I would love to find the type of guy who is secure and confident enough to know I love and care for him (even when my heads in a book). A guy who would understand if i had to drive out to take my daughter a replacement key as she forgot hers and its late at night. The type of guy who wouldnt be annoyed if our quiet night in got invaded by a bunch of 16yr olds. The type of guy would see the funny side of me asking the couple(who we both would prefer if they left)to stay for dinner! A guy who can make me laugh....and love me for forever.