caramac (50) from Durham

Im a 47 year old man been through quite a few different phases in my life...lived in Germany for 17yrs..but been back in Uk for about 12 yrs...i do still speak German...i used ta bloody dream in German..sad i know...was into fitness for 10yrs and didnt smoke or drink alcohol..Travelled a fair bit in the past and just started again last year..with Portugal and backpacking in Thailand March this year..before any of you jump to conclusions NOT as a sex tourist..it was amazing but wish i could have shared it with someone special...

I am after a long term relationship soulmate and best friend..i dont do one nights but also realise its not easy to get to the long term thing and ya have to start somewhere...usually with chatting and then maybe a date to see if there is any chemistry between us..if not its no problem..i can handle rejection and hope you can too..i do want so much to be in a relationship but not just any..it has to feel right for both or theres no point..