bunstar (46) from Essex

i am graphic designer by day and club dj, tho have semi retired from this now, i have played round the world and loved it but cut down a bit to concentrate on having a life. I am looking for the woman i am meant to be with, someone who likes cuddles, nights in, going out, warm evenings in an alfresco restaurant in cyprus, swimming in clear seas, just living life really with someone special to share it with, someone that i can look at every day and feel happy. someone to laugh with, cry with and cope with whatever life throws our way. i swim twice a week (minimum 1 mile), cycle, box, weight train and walk to keep/get fit, and love to fly my big kites (got a few, from 1.4metres to 16 metres) and whizz around in my kitebuggy, or get lifted up or dragged around by them... usually in a less than graceful fashion, but it is tremedous fun(brings out the big kid in me to play). love to visit my family in cyprus (not cypriot, they just moved there a few years ago - free holidays for me!!)and get some serious swimming and diving in. Also, i am training to be a reiki therapist and learning to do massage, more strings to my bow, and apparently quite good at it!!

looking for someone i can feel comfortable with, hold hands, look at and feel love, warmth and need, to laugh with, cuddle, kiss, and just be really happy