Bucc    (45) from Worcestershire

Update: Not looking to date anybody as am now dating.

So you want to know a little about me do you ?

Well, I'm a very easy going person who is also easy to get along with.

I enjoy conversation although have been told on a few occasions that I can rather waffle on, so an ability to tune out, or better still, an ability to tell me when to shut up is good lol.

I can converse on practically any subject that you mention and always enjoy learning more about the world and what people think about it from their experiences and perceptions.

You don't have to be what is perceived as intelligent to hold a conversation and many people have more insight and intelligence than they often give themselves credit for, so don't be put off if you think that I am specifically looking for a brain box.

How you spell and compose your words in the form of your grammar are not very important. It's what you have to say that is.

I can't say that I am the most outgoing of people when it comes to adventure and excitement, so you would rarely, id ever, see me strutting my stuff on a dance floor at a club.

I won't want to get you in to bed within 5 minutes of talking to you and won't even mention the dreaded word sex unless or until you do.

I would also not expect you to be ordering your Wedding dress within minutes of opening a conversation.

The ability to express feeling and emotion would attract me to you, as well as that rarest of qualities, being able to be really honest about what you think and feel, even if you think I don't want to hear it. I would always prefer somebody that not only knows their mind but also speaks it. How you do that of course can make all the difference between having a discussion, rather than an argument.

Physically I am of a larger build and would welcome somebody who would like to get me out of the house more often to experience new outdoor pursuits to bring both enjoyment and healthy exercise, so if such things as a good walk and talk are desirable to you then that would be a good first step for me too.

How you look and what size you may be are not that important to me as in the long term it's the person and their personality that you have to live with.

Independence and you having a slice of life for yourself are very important, so that you can pursue the things that you like to do alone and for your own enjoyment and satisfaction. That does not mean that I might not like to try some of those things with you to see if there are both things that we could enjoy together, to appreciate a new activity or even just to appreciate what they may mean to you. They say we should try everything at least once, so why not ?

Although I am the Eternal Optimist, I am also a realist, so know that there are so few women that would date a man that was not a good few inches taller, so be being on the shorter side at 5'6", you should be realistic too about what you really want.

That also goes for the reason that you join a dating site.

Please know exactly what you want and especially when it comes to your children.

I would always appreciate a woman who's children know that they are dating with a view to either a serious relationship or whatever it is that they seek from their encounters.

Whilst I, like many others would hope that one day we will find our soul mate, making friends is also a good thing, so if you are looking for that too, then by all means come and say hi and strike up a conversation.

Many of the best relationships start off as good friendships and you can never really know which path one may lead.

Dating for me is about getting to know people as people and anything else that may come from that is a bonus.

I have no specific expectation and simply go with the flow and see if things develop.

I accept that there has to be a spark of some degree, both from talking via PM, MSN, telephone and the ALL IMPORTANT first meet. It is only when you meet somebody that you can really have the chance to see their true personality.

You have nothing to lose by simply talking and everything to potentially gain.

It all starts and continues with communication, which is top of my list of requirements :-) 

Bucc is 45 years old and lives in Worcestershire. He is single with no children. He's 5' 6" tall and of cuddly build. He's a non-smoker, who drinks occasionally. He is looking for friendship, hobbies and activities.

Level: 1 Trusted member: not yet! Joined on: 22-Jan-2008 Last logged in on: 11-Aug-2008 Last updated profile: 11-Aug-2008   Conversations with Bucc

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