Bagpuss (48) from Cumbria

About me

Positivity is my mantra & it appeals to me in others.Life is precious & too short to be wasted & not enjoyed.To see the good in life is so much nicer than focusing on the negatives.

I have spent my whole adult life caring for others through work & at home.Its how I am & cannot change.Nor would I want to.If others are happy then it makes me happy too.

Love is very important to me be it through family, friendships or romance.When I love its something selfless, pure & spiritual.Sounds soppy or a cliche perhaps but true nonetheless.

I love affection & like to give it being a very tactile person.A cuddle says so much & is a way of conveying how much you care.My photos will show I am indeed a human cuddle on legs.I was created to cuddle & care.

I try to always be honest as its a very important quality to me.Honesty & integrity are vital for a good relationship.At least I feel they are.I am pretty old fashioned in many ways.

I have twinkly eyes that show my fun loving nature & a smile that tells the world when I am happy.I love to smile & see others smile too.

I have a mobility problem which does limit me.I use a stick to walk & when outside I have a rather glamorous wheelchair to get me around.I have learned from my limitations to not sweat the small stuff as the saying goes.I appreciate life & humanity all the more & my persona is still as large as life as it always was!!Just need to find someone who appreciates it ;o)

About you

I'd love to find a special someone here if I were lucky enough.The one I long for every moment we are apart, who fills my waking hours & also my dreams.

It would be easy to write a wishlist of ideals we hope for in a partner.How do we truly know what is our ideal though?That perfect person may take you by surprise & grab your heart when you least expect it.I don't want to limit my chance of happiness & love with someone.

An attraction to someone is vital although impossible to predict when you chat until you meet face to face.For me there has to be a chemistry too & common goals.

I do have a secret passion for hairy chests I confess (my eyes ARE twinkling!) but its the heart that beats inside it that matters most.Faithfullness & respect for each other is important to me too.

I really feel uncomfortable talking about the intimate side of a relationship with a stranger.If sex is all you crave without commitment please pass me by.We are all different & I respect that so please respect my choice too.

Bagpuss is 48 years old and lives in Cumbria. She is divorced with two children. She's 5' 3" tall and of heavy build. She's a non-smoker, who never drinks. She is looking for dating and romance, friendship.

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