babycakes80 (32) from Surrey

Hi my name is Bethany, I am a transgendered m-f (I live this 24/7, it's not just for fantasy).
I am 30 and live just outside of London with my cat, and work in Whitehall.
I like going to the cinema, eating out, socialising, making new friends, playing boardgames, bowling, shopping, hanging online, entertaining people and travelling.
I'm a very sweet natured girl but can be a downer sometimes, I try to keep my chin up and make sure those around me are happy to. I care a lot about others and love being able to treat them or show them a good time.

I'm hoping to meet men and women who share my interests for dating that can possibly work into something more.
The personality is far more important than the photo, I'll take my luck on whether you aren't an ugly freak. Someone who I can love is far more important to me than having sex.

About me

Detailed facts Hobbies and interests Hopes and dreams

About me

I'm 32 years old and come from Surrey in the United Kingdom. I'm single with no kids. I'm 5' 4" tall and of average build. I don't smoke and I drink occasionally. I'm here for dating and friendship.

My detailed facts

Hair colour	Dark brown
Hair style	Long
Eyes	Dark brown
Glasses	For driving/distance only
Facial hair	Clean shaven
Tattoos	None
Piercings	None
Attractiveness	Quite attractive
Ethnicity	White - British
Education	University
Job	Clerical/admin
Income	Low income
Smoking	Never smoked
Drinking	Socially and sometimes at home
Drugs	Never
Food	Red meat all the way
Politics	Independent thinker
Religion	Spiritual
Practising	No
Children	0
More children	Not sure

My hobbies and interests

Cooking	I do like to cook, probably not much good. I enjoy trying to cook and being a bit experimental. I like to use sweet potatos often.
Shopping	I love shopping for clothes and fashion when I can afford it, or for toys, books and gifts. I'm great with food shopping too and not one of those who starts grumbling the minute they get in the shop.
DIY	It's probably best I left diy to someone else.
Housework	I am pretty slobby but that's due to my perception on things as have mild learning disabilities.
Dining out	I love food. My favourites are Mexican, American, European Chinese and Fast Food. I'm just as happy with a bowl of tasty soup as I am with steaks.
Movies	I do enjoy films a lot. My favourite types are animation, comedies, chick flicks, thrillers and some horrors.
Theatre	I like the theatre a lot whether it's musical, comedy, Shakespare or something different. My favourite pieces are Shakespeare's "Romeo and Juliet" and "A Midsummer Night's Dream", Arthur Miller's "A View From The Bridge", Oscar Wilde's "The Importance of Being Earnest" and Lloyd Webber's "Phantom of The Opera"
Music	I like country and western quite a but but also enjoy soul, folk, some rock and pop and anything with good lyrics. My favourite sort of music are songs which move my heart.
Gigs	I'm afraid I have never been to a gig.
Pubs	I do like pubs a lot and am usually happy with a whiskey, rum or wine.
Clubbing	I don't think I have ever really done clubbing. The noise gets a bit too much for me because I am slightly deaf.
Newspapers and magazines	I like The Guardian, Telegraph, Times and local free papers.
Books	My favourite books are the Harry Potter series and any really gripping read.
TV	I'm usually okay curled up in front of the box, seem to be a bit of a cartoon addict but also like news, sitcoms, romance and crime dramas.
Watching sport	I don't really watch or play sport but can enjoy watching the cricket or Olympics.
Playing sport	I walk places and run stairs , that's about it.
Hobbies	I like to collect teddy bears.

My hopes and dreams

In ten years I see myself	It would be great to be famous as a writer or actor. I am currently woroking on a screenplay.
Who would I invite to a dinner party?	I'd like to invite Barrack Obama, William Shakespeare and Jane Austen to dinner with me, but somehow I don't see that happening.
My ideal date	My ideal date would be able to have a laugh and be just as happy with a pizza as a roast dinner.
What would I never, ever give up?	I'd find it hard to give up anything that formed my identity because without it I might feel quite lost.
If I had to give a speech on a subject I was passionate about ...	My subject would probably be gender identity and those who are trapped between two bodies.
If I could visit anywhere in the world at any time in history	I'd like to visit North America at the time of the Old West because I think it would be interesting to be trying to rebuild my life out there.
If I had a million pounds to give to charity	I would want my money to go to something that had future so a charity that supported children would be best.
My "and finally" section ...	I am medically disabled as in I have faulty immune system and dysfunctional pituitary gland but it doesn't stop me getting on with my life and is not contagious.

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