Arbuthnot (54) from Hampshire

Tall, hairy(ish) with rugby players build. Was lawyer (what I did not what I was) now work for Charity Fundraising organisation.
Poet, scholar, insatiably curious and interested in everything. good listener and great talker (but can, and will, shut up when appropriate). Loving, kind, romantic and an old fashioned gentleman. Can be occasionally moody, but cheer up at the drop of a hat! Cultured and artistic (want me to write a poem for/about you?) but always up for fun and silliness too! Love my motorbike - especially to get to my house in France (in need of work still!). Love my two boys (both at Uni) who always come first - but they need a lot less now (except money, of course!). have recently picked up my guitar again - plan is to do open mike nights (after sufficient fortification!). Am also learning to juggle and am trying to master a little accordion!

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My Mum - still love her and miss her loads

Oh and also I get really fed up with people who don't reply to messages - even to say 'thanks but no thanks'. Is that unreasonable of me - maybe it is but what the hey, courtesy costs nothing!

Finally I am no longer signed up to Essentials so my messages are limited!

Slimmish, prettyish lady about my age or younger. Likes music, art, books, biking (pillion or otherwise) and prepared to be pampered and romanced. Happy chilling together, being silent together, being silly together, being active together, visiting museums and galleries together, going to movies (classic, modern, arty or trashy - whatever) together. Doing our own things - but ending up together! If you have waded through that lot and are still, even vaguely, interested then the good news is that, despite everything I've just said, I really am a real man and not a wuss - just in touch with my blah blah blah!!